I was given a cheap candle by someone I worked for for over a year (grew very attached to their children and worked very hard for them, it was more of a token). The candle was probably a tenner max but still, it was a present. My flatmates and I have a collection of candles on the table but mine has been repeatedly stabbed through with a pen or something - 99% sure it was absent-minded and not deliberate - plus they didn't know it was mine and had lots of ransoms staying this week. It's still usable and I don't want to say anything to them for fear of overreacting (also it's not a problem for me to buy a replacement) but I'm so annoyed at how my property has been treated! They are not normally/ever like this though which again is why I should prob just let it go. Aibu?