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.... to expect husband to go out with cards, money, wallet.

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MarianneSolong · 30/11/2016 15:50

He very often either decides that he won't need something or simply forgets.

Sometimes we go out for the day and it emerges he has forgotten to the ake cash or plastic.

Once we were going for a long walk and before we left I put the OS map down beside him on the table as he was getting ready to go. Saying 'Here's the map' He didn't think to bring it.

At one point - some years back - there was a problem when he was out in the car. Thinking we were with the AA he rang them, and they said no were weren't members. So he had to ring me to get the RAC's number.

Just had a call to say he's broken down on a roundabout without any cards. So could I tell him the RAC number? No doubt a kinder person would feel sorry for him. I gave him the number and rang off without making further enquiries.

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MarianneSolong · 30/11/2016 15:50

'take' cash or plastic...

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FlyingElbows · 30/11/2016 15:53

Mr Elbows is a nightmare for forgetting his wallet. The rac card lives in the car precisely because of this.

BorpBorpBorp · 30/11/2016 16:00

You always need emergency cash when you go out. You never know when you'll fall and break your ankle and need a taxi to hospital.

OhtoblazeswithElvira · 30/11/2016 16:07

Yanbu
You are not alone. DH frequently goes out without his wallet. He tends to realise by the till Hmm . Trying to discuss the concept that it might be a good idea to carry cash or a card when going out is pointless. He doesn't get it but then I don't think he is NT.

He also goes out without keys and locks himself out several times a week!

user12785 · 30/11/2016 16:11

My DH called me at work recently asking for my debit card details, as he'd parked in a "Pay when you leave" carpark and realised he didn't have his wallet and his car was trapped. This is pretty normal. I also had to leave work early once because he'd locked himself in the porch and needed me to come home and let him out. I kept him waiting for a while - he was desperate for a wee by the time I got there!

MarianneSolong · 30/11/2016 16:13

I don't know whether to be comforted or appalled. Probably the former is best.

Thanks all...

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OhtoblazeswithElvira · 30/11/2016 16:21

There have been threads about Incompetent Husbands. If you want to spend a few minutes an hour being comforted and appalled.Grin

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