I've turned to this forum as sadly in real life don't feel like I have anyone to share my problems with and have been having difficulties in general life and my relationship. Don't want to rant so I'll try and keep it brief! Married 4 kids recently lost my brother, which I am struggling with as it was only 5 month ago, but coping in my own way. Recently started University worked my butt off at college for a year to gain a place at uni. I've always wanted to get back into education and follow my passion but due to situations and relationships haven't had the opportunity, now I have finally done it :) Happy with myself kids are doing great, however my realtionship with my husband is crap. I have really learned alot about myself and what I want out of life in the last few years and have more self confidence and direction than I have ever had. Husband however has no motivation, goals or dreams and I really feel that he is holding me back.
He has no conversation in him and only seems interested in having sex with me, not what I have to say. He has all theses big plans of a new house, car, holidays but is on the verge of getting sacked from his job, minimum wage he hates it and has no plans to find another or improve his employ ability. He is no help what so ever around the house, often waiting for me to return from late lectures to prepare tea, I do pretty much everything house and child related, as well as trying to study, I've recently had to quit my part time job, as it was too much, but don't feel like I can rely on him financially or in any other way to be honest. Sorry that was a long rant he says I'm selfish and should make more time for him, but in all honesty, although we do spend time together, he bores me and is only interested in getting me into bed