One of the mummies I know has got drinking problem... Well we all can see it but she thinks that everything is ok. She would have 2 or 3 glasses of wine nearly every day and get extremely drunk when we go out (I mean being sick in the restaurant and being asked to leave someone's house drunk). As we are a part of a bigger group I am happy to ignore her and focus on talking to the others but it recently started to impact on her kids... She continued to drink when she was pregnant and when her ds2 was born and only 1 day old they took him to the pub to celebrate with wine and dinner. Within few months of him being born she would text is few time asking for help as he was running a high fever but because they both had a drink, they couldn't drive to the hospital. Few time she would also ask if someone can come in and look after the baby as they had a "stomach flu"...
I know that social services have more pressing cases, and they look like a completely reasonable parents (big house, new car, nice middle class area) but I can see a lot of neglect when you look past the surface.
Would you report them? I am not close enough with them to just have a chat...