tonight after dinner I was cleaning up and noticed a placemat had last nights dinner on it. I asked dh and he insisted he had wiped it but it wouldn't come off. I got a wet cloth and it came off easily. I laughed and made a joke about me being right and took things through to the kitchen. when I returned dd looked uncomfortable and said I need to tell you something. dh said, no don't! if mummy and daddy split up it will be your fault. I told dd that she had done nothing wrong and got her to tell me. Apparently dh called me a pig when I had left the room. Recently he has remarked on my being overweight - I am 5'7 and 13.5 stone but I am working on it. He is from an asian country where almost everyone is very slender. I was hurt at his comment and told him not to come near me.
DD got upset. She is 7, I explained its not her fault. I told dh I am not Happy at him putting that kind of pressure / guilt on her, and that he.s setting a terrible example.
He disagrees and is now angry with me.
AIBU?