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Mother left bad review of my business because of how we treated her 3 year old

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user1480264682 · 27/11/2016 16:48

I run a soft play centre in a small town. It closes at 6pm weekends but sometimes it closes at 3:30 for private hire parties.

Last Saturday it closed at 3:30pm. We did put that it would be closing
On facebook and on an A4 piece of paper outside the door of the centre. I We put the notice up three days before the early closing.

At 3:14pm one of our workers saw a young mum and her 3 year old arrisve excitedly for soft play. She took his coat and shoes off and handed over her £4.00.
The worker told her that the centre would be closing in 15 mins.

She was upset and said that her son would not understand why he couldn't go In and she had travelled half an hour to get here.
She told him that soft play was closed and he didn't understand so she asked if he could play for 15 mins. My worker said that if she wanted to play for the remaining 15mins she would have to pay full price. She said she couldn't afford £4.00
For 15 mins as she would have to occupy her son for the remaining hours afterwards so would need to take him somewhere else.

She said okay and was nice not annoyed. She never said she was upset at the time. She then left with her son who started screaming crying saying he wanted o go in soft play and she had to pick him up screaming crying. The worker didn't see or hear him crying but another who was outside did.

The mother has since gone on to write a bad review on out facebook page. She used to visit our centre up to three times a week and she has said it was very mean not to let her clearly disappointed son play for 15 mins as he was so excited to play and at his age did not understand it was closed. She also said she was willing to pay just not full price.

She has said she will never be returning and her son cried for an hour on the way home trying to run back.
I would have done the same as this worker and she is not going to be in trouble for this as you have to pay full price no matter what time you arrive.

AIBU? It may have been nice to
let him play for 15 mins but shouldn't be expected. In hindsight we may have considering the circumstances but we feel it shouldn't be expected.

OP posts:
Mumsmet · 01/02/2018 11:14

FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE UNNATURALLY ANGERED BY THIS POST BEING RESURRECTED MAYBE STOP POSTING ON IT SO THAT IT WILL NO LONGER LOOK CURRENT

TheCatsPaws · 01/02/2018 11:15

Mumsmet ah the posters who have easy children who think everyone’s kids are the same strike again!

Sparklingbrook · 01/02/2018 11:17

I wonder how long it takes Zombie threads to die for a second time? Grin

Viviennemary · 01/02/2018 11:21

I think this was quite wrong to leave the sign. Because somebody could have travelled some distance to the soft play to find it closed early. And who is going to rock up at the gate three days before to make sure it isn't closing early. And charging the Mum full price for 15 minutes play was downright mean. I would have left a bad review too.

Viviennemary · 01/02/2018 11:22

Didn't realise it was zombie thread. Blush

Loubilou09 · 01/02/2018 11:28

You were in the wrong

Loubilou09 · 01/02/2018 11:28

Ooops! Zombie Blush

Mumsmet · 01/02/2018 12:12

@TheCatsPaws I am not sure why your cats claws are out for me.
Maybe look inwardly rather than venting unnecessary bitterness at me.

TheCatsPaws · 01/02/2018 12:22

I just said it was a bit unreasonable to expect a toddler to not be disappointed and that commenting on an old thread was pointless. I’m not being nasty to you. Confused

annielouise · 01/02/2018 12:48

I would respond and say sorry her son was upset and that if you'd been on reception you'd have recognised her as a regular customer and allowed her in for free for 15 minutes, although that might have upset her son more, having to leave after such a short time, but you would have left that to her to decide. However the receptionist didn't recognise her as she usually works only weekends and also doesn't have the authority to act outside of guidelines. Then I'd add something about having a rethink about moving private parties to outside normal hours [you don't need to apologise for this though - that was up to the mother to check opening times]. As a friendly gesture I would say you'd like to offer a free session and hope that she would take it up soon as we don't like to leave our customers unhappy.

She might have been OTT and too harsh but the bottom line is you don't want the bad publicity and presumably you don't want to lose her. Giving her a free session is cheap and worth it to appear reasonable. Also replying in the tone I've put above will make others think well the mum might have a point but management/owner dealt with it reasonably and generously.

I don't see why you couldn't let them in for free for 15 minutes. If he cried after that that's down to the mother to sort out but if she's spending £10 a go with you what is 15 minutes for free once in a while for a supposedly valued customer. Businesses do it all the time.

annielouise · 01/02/2018 12:49

Ah, bugger didn't realise it was an old thread

SersioulycanitgetWORSE · 01/02/2018 12:50

I'm cringing at this.

So so awful. I have done this with few times, and have always been let in free... With sweet hugely apologetic staff...

I think this is so cruel. So cruel. It would not have harmed anyone to let them in, and yet would have meant so much to that little boy and his mum Sad.

Rotten behaviour.

Mumsmet · 01/02/2018 13:34

@TheCatsPaws Okay, fair enough- sorry

And the comments keep coming on this thread. I am sorry that I commented on an old post now.....

100YearsOfVote · 01/02/2018 14:15

What would your business have lost if you let them in for 15 min for free?

I'd have been fucked off too. If you are going to open yourself up to SM reviews you've gotta take the tough with the smooth.

I'd send her an apology on SM and a pass for a future visit. You can put this right if you want too.

100YearsOfVote · 01/02/2018 14:16

Oh crap ZOMBIE THREAD!!

BashStreetKid · 01/02/2018 14:20

Surely everyone checks the dates and knows it's old and can choose whether to comment or not?!

Obviously not ..

ZOMBIE THREAD

Myfavouritechild · 01/02/2018 14:23

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