I'm fuming this evening. I'm a teacher and work long hours like lots of other people so I'm totally exhausted and may have overreacted slightly to this.
Background information - dh is a cub leader. Not the only leader, but one of a team and one of them ( not sure which one but fairly sure it isn't dh has organised a visit to an activity centre tomorrow.
Having my dinner this evening and a woman knocks on my door. I don't know her but recognise her as a parent if a cub and know she lives somewhere on the road behind me. I answer the door and she starts off saying what's happening tomorrow then? I could tell she was worked up but as I have nothing to do with cubs I have no idea what they are doing and told her so. She was getting note and more upset and asked if dh was in. When I said no she pretty much tried to barge in. Basically she hasn't seen an email about times for tomorrow, has no idea what is going on and was crying and getting hysterical by this stage saying over and over - but I'm a nurse - what am I supposed to do?
She was really over the top and most definitely unhinged and then started ranting about it being unacceptable. I pointed out there was nothing that I could do and all I could do was speak I dh when he got home and see if he knew. I pointed out that he also works long hours and is a volunteer so sometimes he may not email in a timely manner but he is doing his best. (I refer back to the fact that I am pretty certain it is not him organising this event). Anyway she ranted on and on (hysteria!) so I told her she was too emotional and needed to get her shit together. I also told her not to darken my door again with her screaming and ranting and promptly shut the door and went inside.
Seriously there was nothing j could do to help her. I appreciate its frustrating and she just wanted to get organised but to yell and scream at a volunteers wife because they have no idea what is happening is just unreasonable.
She's pretty lucky I didn't tell her to fuck right off as I'm pretty conversant with swear words! I feel I was quite restrained to me. God knows how she'll react if I see her in the street again in our small village. Oh my god, I am actually so wound up. Seriously who goes and knocks on someone's door randomly and act unhinged because you don't know what time you are supposed to be somewhere??!! People are bloody hard work!
AIBU?
To think that some people have no idea how to conduct themselves?
Luckster · 23/11/2016 20:40
Good point.
If the person in question had been male.....?
Police? Release the hounds?
'Saintly' ? Nobbly Bobbly more like. 
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Meeting my mum tomorrow will ask her what she'd do after this incident if she met the woman in the street. Mum avoids confrontation anyway and hates swearing. Like mother like daughter I guess.
When her DH explained to her that the woman was "highly strung" he is slightly out of order just saying that with no prior proof or knowledge (in my opinion) because unless he knows her medical or MH state she could be bi polar or have any other sort of MH/SN etc.
Good grief I've heard it all now. We can't make observations about people's personalities unless we have their full medical history laid out before us 
I genuinely dont believe that if these posters' husbands said "isn't Kathy from next door highly strung" they respond with "actually that's out of order and you cannot make that judgement unless she has a MH issue Peter, and you don't know if she does do you?"
Oh well this thread has been entertaining to say the least. Disclaimer: by my use of the word "entertaining" I'd like to ensure people are aware that I am NOT making fun of court jesters or using my non-jester privilege to make a point. Thought I'd put that out there now
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