...she would be far from impressed if she knew I was posting this. I'm doing it because she's got a history of dating abusive & on one occasion a dangerous man. I'm a bit 'green' to it all on here but I think there are people who give great advice.
She's met a new guy on Tinder. They've been out on a few dates (5-6?) He texts her constantly. Initially I think she liked the attention but he messages her a lot asking what she's up to (15-20 times a day whether she replies or not) He seems to have a short temper & gets angry when he is driving (swears, shouts at other drivers) I met him once & he shouted at his dog and calls it a 'fucking dick'. He uses drugs occasionally (coke, weed) and seems to drink (at least a couple of beers) every night. He told her he used to self-harm but hasn't for a few years. I know these all might seem harmless - tell me to mind my own business if you want. Just worried as the last guy she was with was violent & the one before that EA. Wd you think any of these are things to be wary of and AIBU to tell her I feel concerned? Thanks for reading!