@Emma271182
Firstly, calm the fuck down. No one is going to give you words of support when you use phrases like "opened her legs" - I hate to break it to you but you realise men are responsible for creating babies too? Women on here give advice and support, you may hate women (I am making the assumption based on your misogynistic use of words) but not all of us do so won't jump to your OH's defence on your hysterical day-so.
But a few points to your utterly ridiculous post:
my partners ex has been using this site to gain infomation from you creatons to extort the CMS and use it as a weapon to financially damage not only himself but MYSELF AND MY CHILDREN!
Don't make me laugh. RP cannot extort CMS - NRPs can though by going self employed and not declaring their fortune (happens a lot and is a huge loop hole in the system). NRPs - vast majority of whom are men - owe their children £4billion in this country. This pisses many of us off.
I have a son with ASD and my partner is an amazing step father to both of my children, it's not easy for a man to form a bond with children that's not his own let alone a child with Autism
I'm sure you're right but what does this have to do with his ex and maintenance?
TBH I feel sorry for his child he's abandoned in favour of your children - but it happens all the time I guess.
Whoever it is that has been giving her advice should be ashamed of themselves!
Who do you think has been giving her advice on this thread? Or do you thinkMN is a hive mind?
This individual broke up a family home because she was cheating on him (an amazing man!) with a drug dealer! Fact. (I hired a private investigator as I didn't believe him at first)
If you're short of cash why are you chucking money away on this? And it doesn't matter who did what - your OH needs to pay for his child.
She had a child with my partner knowing he had a good job and she would be financially secure
Sounds like good sense to me. Who would have a child with a skint bloke?
To attain click and collect payments, and has now got the CMS demanding in excess of over £200 per week for a child he hasn't seen in two and a half years!
In that case he must be bloody loaded!! So he earns around £1k per week? So why can't he see his mum? And Why doesn't he see his child?
He is devastated and now has lost a career of 16 years!
He lost his job over this maintenance issue? How?
low and behold some one comes out and says what we're all thinking, but yet I'm the bad person? Well you know what they say about true co
Literally no one agrees with you
So to summarise - you think that because he's a good stepdad and his ex had an affair that he doesn't need to pay for or see his child and he played no part in the child being created because apparently women "open their legs"??