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To give them their bins back?

51 replies

FizzBombBathTime · 22/11/2016 11:26

I live in a block of 4 mainsonettes, all bins are kept in the communal garden

Our black bin is only half full (2 adults and a baby) and one of our neighbours doesn't recycle and always has extra bags they can't fit in their black bin (I know it's theirs as they use orange see through bags and no body else does)

Went round to the garden this morning and found two orange bags and a bag of food in our black bin making our bin overflow

Was I unreasonable to remove them, dump them by their black bin and moan very loudly when walking through the communal hallway?!

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MyKingdomForBrie · 22/11/2016 16:45

READ THE THREAD people, OP does NOT have spare bin space!

Christ everyone weighing in to have a go without reading properly is irritating.

FizzBombBathTime · 22/11/2016 16:56

Lol Brie

To be fair I shouldn't have moaned in the alleyway but I was just pissed off that I've only been here a month and they are trying to take advantage of me

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amammabear · 22/11/2016 17:09

If you'd use someone else's without knowing first if they'd need the space, that is unreasonable, and if you don't ask, you can't know that, I can't understand why anyone would think it's ok not to ask?

If we don't have room, we take or extra rubbish to the tip, but when my neighbour was using our bin without asking, hew was taking up the space that we DID need, just like the op.

If any of my neighbours asked, and we didn't need the space, I'd let them use it without question.

Thinkingblonde · 22/11/2016 17:14

I don't think you are being unreasonable, Our bins don't get emptied if recyclable items are mixed in with general waste or if the lids don't close.
Big yellow stickers get plastered over the offending bin saying 'Contaminated Waste'. You'd think it was radioactive or something.

There has been talk of weight sensors being put on our bins, it's just a proposal at the moment but if it does come in force I can see all kinds of problems.

nennyrainbow · 22/11/2016 17:15

I'd be pissed off too, OP, if they hadn't asked and if it meant we ran the risk of our bin not being emptied because it was overfilled. More so because it's stuff that shouldn't be in there in the first place.

If you don't know who it is, could you leave a politely worded note on the bin?

MauiWest · 22/11/2016 17:16

YANBU at all.

It would drive me mad. I need the room too. I always put the very last bag just before the bin men collect. My bin is always full. How rude of people to use neighbours bins WITHOUT ASKING THEM FIRST. If my bin is full, I can either keep rubbish for another 2 weeks (charming) or take the bag to the tip. I don't want to do either, and I especially don't want to take my neighbours trash in my clean car.

I need to investigate this bin lock idea, sounds great.

FizzBombBathTime · 22/11/2016 17:21

Yeah I'm now considering putting a lock on it. I'm due to have dc2 soon and can't be arsed with the drama

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previously1474907171 · 23/11/2016 01:13

Our council take action if people put stuff in the wrong bins, ie: recycling in the rubbish, it has even been in the local paper. Our recycling bins are not emptied if someone puts household waste in and our green (garden waste) bin isn't emptied if there are bin liners in, even compostable ones.

Could you check your council website and see if there are penalties for not recycling and take it from there?

BlackeyedSusan · 23/11/2016 07:40

we had student s in the bottom flat that did the same. took out their untied bag and rested it against their door, then knocked loudly on their door, it would have fallen in the hall. (not fucking about trying to tie someone elses manky bag when the lazy fuckers also would not recycle)

did not happen again.

Collaborate · 23/11/2016 07:47

I have a theory that everyone having a go at OP is secretly a bin space stealer.

Giselaw · 23/11/2016 07:49

YABU.

If you didn't use disposable nappies, you'd have plenty of room. Grin. Halo

Gowgirl · 23/11/2016 07:50

Get a lock! 4 years I put up with my lazy bitch ex ndn filling my bins because she couldn't be arsed to recycle plus dumping bin bags which the foxes ripped open on our shared driveway.

ClarissaDarling · 23/11/2016 07:55

Get a lock! Can't believe there's actual smuggery on a thread about bins! YANBU OP, but it seems that you should gladly be offering your bin space to random rude neighbours....Confused

WhatchaMaCalllit · 23/11/2016 07:58

If your neighbours don't recycle as much as you say, perhaps there are details (a letter, an envelope perhaps) that they've thrown out and its in one of the bags. I know it would mean rooting/routing (sorry, never sure which is the right spelling of the word) through their rubbish but then you could safely knock on their door (with accompanying Recycling literature) and say:
"Hi, I live in apartment 3b (or wherever) and I believe you left this in the wrong bin" and return it to them, leaving it for them to sort out.

FizzBombBathTime · 23/11/2016 08:17

Giselaw I have enough room for OUR rubbish Hmm
Why should I not use disposables so that my neighbours can be lazy fucks?!

Well FIL is coming round tonight to drill a hole through the lid and stick a lock on it, job done

Thanks people!

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FizzBombBathTime · 23/11/2016 08:20

Whatcha I considered that but as the bin liner is see through I can see the nastiness in there and don't fancy opening it tbh Blush

I have an inkling as to who it is (like I said there's only 2 flats it could be)

And the lady from the flat who I know it isn't warned me about this aswell! I should have listened...

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FizzBombBathTime · 23/11/2016 08:22

Yes Clarissa apparently I should be changing my nappy use so that my neighbours can take the piss and not recycle Confused

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mammybops · 23/11/2016 08:41

Get a bin lock. Aside from the massive entitlement from your next door neighbour and pain of trying to fit your own waste in the bin there's the consideration of penalties.

Our council actively inspects what's put out for recycling and black bins. First offence is a warning then they start fining you. I've seen them in my area 3 times this year checking.

For the sake of £25 I know I'll always have bin space (because I do recycle) and that the random neighbours haven't dumped something penalty worthy in my council labelled (with a barcode!) bin.

That's the trouble with easy to access communal bin areas and smug entitled gits who think because you currently have space you're selfish for not sharing.

FizzBombBathTime · 23/11/2016 08:59

mammy that's the thing if we weren't maisonettes would they think it is ok to put their bins in ours?! (So if we were just neighbouring houses for eg)

Doesn't help strangers walk through our garden as a cut through and dump shit in our black bin aswell Sad

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mammybops · 23/11/2016 09:20

fizz we live on a street with loads of small blocks of flats...we actually had someone from a block across the street try to use our bins several times so don't think being in a Maisonette has much bearing on behaviour to be honest.

If the bin has been allocated to your property no one has the right to use it without permission.

No "Oh but you have space". Tough luck, even if I have an empty bin on collection day I wouldn't take in someone else's rubbish because they may land me with a fine.

I'm probably less reasonable than you are about it all Smile

FizzBombBathTime · 23/11/2016 09:23

I understand with the threat of a fine you wouldn't want to risk it

I haven't noticed anything like that here tbh, I think if they introduced it I wouldn't even consider it either

Right now, if a neighbour asked because for whatever reason they were overflowing with rubbish then I would say fair enough but just dumping it in there so it's overflowing my bin AND be V too fucking lazy to ask me or even recycle your milk bottles is just shite.

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HazelBite · 23/11/2016 10:15

When we were (many moons ago) allocated bins by the Council we had to fill in a questionnaire about the size/ages of our family etc so we got a bin of the appropriate size. We were allocated four green bins for our garden waste and have had to pay to have extra green bins.
We have to leave our bins out on the street and as we are all at work they are left there all day after being emptied. We live by a school and have to empty the rubbish that gets left in them after we have brought them in.

FizzBombBathTime · 23/11/2016 10:33

Hazel Shock

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ExitPursuedBySpartacus · 23/11/2016 23:38

Big garden Hazel

Solina · 24/11/2016 00:03

This is why it makes me so happy that ours are emotied once a week. I trt to recycle though, but I could do better on it.
Your neighbour should start recycling more.

Not helpful I know but just wanted to say yanbu and the lock sounds good.