I asked DH last night what his plans were for today...he said he was going into his office (we both work full time but more often than not he works from home or goes in on a later train, he can set his own hours normally). He's got an interesting project on after several months of not much on. I've got into the habit of getting up and getting myself ready and out of the house, often he'll be still in bed when I leave. So this morning I wasn't watching the clock but he woke up at 7:30 and realised he'd missed his train, got furious at me because he had 'told' me he wanted to get the early train (he's ended up going for a later train). I got furious back at him...shouting and tears followed.
WIBU to get so angry about this? What really made me angry was 1) his expectation that I should be responsible for waking him up, then 2) the expectation that he could take out his anger (with himself, for running late) on me. Looking back, I suppose I could have asked him what train he intended to get, but should I have to plan my morning around him? We are both in our 50s btw. And he earns more money than me. DCs left home and doing fine so it's just us in the house.