YANBU
I completely agree with you, OP. The same goes for wegght watchers, which is why so many put the weight back on and end up having to return. There are people who have done Slimming World on and off for years and keep yo-yoing.
People say you don't HAVE to eat the yogurts and that free food does not REALLY mean free food because you still have to exercise portion control. The point is that the plan tells you that a Muller Light is a better bet than cooking with olive oil or eating an avocado. Even the smoothie thing I don't agree with. Yes, a shop-bought smoothie is full of pasteurised sugar and half of it from apple juice, but the same is not true of a bunch of fruit and veg whizzed up in a nutribullet. Infinitely better than hifi bars, flumps, spray-oil, diet fizzy drinks and muller lights, all of which the diet does allow and even encourage. Yes, you don't have to follow it, but what's the point if you're ignoring their suggestions? You could be doing any other diet.
My experience of weight watchers was interesting. There was a weigh in where we queued to be weighed and have it noted down. There was a morbidly obese man behind a table, selling various WW products, including crisps, biscuits and chocolate bars. Lots of people bought stuff and were munching away as we sat down.
The leader, who was visibly overweight herself, explained that she had started out at 19st, got down to 10 on WW but had 'been bad' and regained some so was still on the journey with the rest of us. This was fine, I can totally understand that. She then recommended that if we were struggling, we should replace all of our meals with supermarket ready meals because they have the points printed on the packet and we can really make sure we don't stray off plan.
She said that sometimes she blows her entire 49 extra pro-points on alcohol in one night. She said she works in a supermarket and many times, the doughnuts are too tempting and 'whoops, I blew two weeks of points in ten minutes'. I can understand the value of realising that everyone is fallible, but it can be quite hard when you are seeking guidance and the message is that binge eating is OK/normal.
This was WW- i stopped going after a couple of weeks of hearing that ready meals were great and that i should 'fill up' on diet coke. I have also tried SW, which to be fair wasn't that much better. There wasn't the pushing of products and the leader seemed more in control (although was also overweight herself), but the talk about chocolate and sweets, yet pushing fat free food instead of healthy home-cooked food was similar. I didn't last long there either.
I think WW and SL have a similar record of success in terms of weight loss, so neither is 'better' than the other. Both of them seek to complicate the calories in vs calories out, making people having to add up and convert points/syns. This means that long-term many will give up. And the lack of portion control thing is unhelpful. If you in fact ARE supposed to exercise control, shouldn't the diet tell you to do that rather than suggesting you do the complete opposite?