I work 9.45-5.45 summer and 9.45 till 4.45 winter 6 days a week partner works 8.30 till 5.30 but hours are flexible and he can leave early from work so always does and then catches up at home doing bits of work through out the evenings I do all the cooking and cleaning at the moment which I don't mind doing more than him as I enjoy cooking but he never helps wash up or help do the food shop I asked today if he could help Tomorrow with the online food shop and just tell me what he needed me to order his reply just re order what we had last time this order included two pumpkins loads of toilet roll a bag of frozen peas which we don't need to order again and was actually hoping for some meal inspiration he makes remarks about me working less hours but I'm self employed for part of my job and he's gets hour long lunches my mum also commented on the washing up in the sink and when I said I was leaving it for him to do as I've just made dinner and I've done the cleaning all week she made some comment that as a woman I should do more