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*************PINKCHAMPAGNE********************* Do you think Im over reacting?

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pinkbubble · 13/02/2007 22:06

Cant believe I let myself get fooled again ! Have I got MUG written all over my face? What have I done to deserve a family like this!!!!

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pinkbubble · 13/02/2007 22:12
Hmm
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pinkbubble · 13/02/2007 22:18

Hmm Hmm

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pinkchampagne · 13/02/2007 22:20

What's up my dear? Is it your sister again?

Beetrootccio · 13/02/2007 22:21

are you two related?

pinkchampagne · 13/02/2007 22:22

LOL! No, PB is a friend! She chose this name so that I would spot her easily!

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pinkbubble · 13/02/2007 22:22

Yer, guess all DDs are in bed now sometimes silence is louder than noise! Cant believe I took it all on the chin and now thinkig she may come next week! God I must be stupid

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pinkchampagne · 13/02/2007 22:26

Can't believe she didn't even bother to contact you & let you know that she was letting you down again. I'm sorry she has upset you like this though. I feel pretty angry with her on your behalf.
Blimmin families eh?!

pinkchampagne · 13/02/2007 22:27

And no you are not over reacting - I would feel the same in your position.

Flamesparrow · 13/02/2007 22:28

I know nothing as this is clearly private, but I hate people being let down and feeling cr*ppy, so I am and with you

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pinkbubble · 13/02/2007 22:28

Do I have mug written on my forehead!!!

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lulumama · 13/02/2007 22:29

think i sort of know what this is about, and i am really sad for you, if it refers to the thread re the sis and the weekend?

pinkchampagne · 13/02/2007 22:30

I don't think it's private, FS - it's just PB spoke to me earlier about this & is feeling pretty crappy. She really hoped to see her sister & her DD's were so excited about meeting their cousin.

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pinkbubble · 13/02/2007 22:31

Flamesparrow Hi, sorry have just been let down by sister who I thought was coming down and she didnt even bother to tell me she wasnt, so not only do I feel let but so do my 3 little ladies! Please feel free to join our little chat! it may even cheer me up!

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pinkchampagne · 13/02/2007 22:32

Of course you don't have mug written across your forehead, PB, you were just really hopeful that she wasn't going to let you down again & sadly that's what's happened.

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pinkbubble · 13/02/2007 22:33

Lulumamma yes it was , I eventually plucked up courage to phone again this afternoon and she answered the phone and said "Oh i meant to of rang you!" she has told me she may come next week now-

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pinkbubble · 13/02/2007 22:34

Oh goodness , Im sad for goodness sake Im a grown up so why does it hurt so much!

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pinkchampagne · 13/02/2007 22:36

Oh right - so she is still making out she may still embrace you with her presence!
Just don't pin too much hope on it - you have been let down so much in the past, haven't you?

pinkchampagne · 13/02/2007 22:37

Is your DH home?

Flamesparrow · 13/02/2007 22:38

Oh no Having had situations of always raising my hopes for it all to be let down, I know the horribleness you are feeling - the bitter with them, the feeling stupid with yourself for trusting again.

Just lots of hugs really

lulumama · 13/02/2007 22:38

she didn;t even let you know !

you are too nice, which is not the same as being a mug...and giving the benefit of the doubt

maybe make some arrangements, then go away for the weekend, and show her how it feels to be treated so casually

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pinkbubble · 13/02/2007 22:39

YES! Im trying to stay out of way!!
TRouble is Im so des to see her and DS,I got all excited and even cleaned the house-boody familes!

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pinkchampagne · 13/02/2007 22:40

Good idea, lulumama!

pinkchampagne · 13/02/2007 22:41

Oh bubble I'm so sorry she has let you & your girls down like this.

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pinkbubble · 13/02/2007 22:41

YES thats the truth and didnt know until I rang her this afternnon at 2pm- I just couldnt wait any longer!

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pinkchampagne · 13/02/2007 22:42

Have you had yourself a drink tonight?