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NOT to pay fo a Hen do that im not going on!!

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pinkranger · 12/02/2007 10:09

I was meant to be going on my SIL hen do to Scotland for the weekend in may but i have pulled due to the fact that i am pregnant and it will be a weekend of drink,drink and more drink ( normally would be great )

We had booked and apartment that worked out £60 each and flights, i have already paid £10 deposit for the accommodation and £70 flight, i am happy to accept that i will lose these but there is now talk that i pay the remanding money for the apartment which they would have booked anyway ??

All this will mean is that they all pay an extra £10 each - is that un reasonable ??

I am also the only one with a family and all the other have VERY good Jobs ??

what do you think ??

OP posts:
ellendegeneres · 02/08/2019 19:40

This was 12yrs ago I’m pretty sure it’s no longer an issue...

HeffaLump1 · 02/08/2019 19:41

@Frankola Why have you resurrected a 12 year old thread??? Grin

Sparklesocks · 02/08/2019 19:45

Frankola yeah I’m sure OP figured it out a decade ago!! Grin

xlilyx · 12/01/2025 10:06

I booked my hen do only to find out I am unable to fly due to being 29 weeks pregnant. It is 5 months away and the flight costs £60 to amend for my friends to use the flight on whatever they want. Do I offer to pay or do I pay towards a uk hen do so they pay less. Should I just apologise?? Thoughts please as I do feel bad and would love to still be going.

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