Okay, so here's the thing. We've been invited to a wedding, but the couple are already married (due to some technicality they decided to get married sooner rather than later). The bride is someone I hold dear to me, she is like a sister (we are related). DH says he doesn't want to go now because it's not a real wedding.
It's abroad and tbh it will cost a bit but we can afford it and I thought it makes a nice excuse for a family holiday with just us/my family (the last three holidays have been with my in-laws). DH has not only decided he doesn't want to go with me, he's decided he's going on holiday with his family. I don't want to make this about his family but they are all very close and while it's fine to have holidays with them, I was hoping this would finally be one with my family. They aren't really tied to anyone but each other so in DH's defence he probably feels obliged to carry on as normal, but I don't feel this is healthy for a marriage.
There's so much to say, but where else to go with this....
I'm very disappointed in him. Don't know how to feel. I'm angry and yes I see his point but then I can't getting over the fact I feel let down. I'm unsure if I can even go now since I left booking until the last minute and prices are high. I have a young DS so although it's one ticket, it's a long way from home alone. I'll have some family going but they're already sorted for accommodation.
I feel ill have to talk to the bride and I feel like telling her the whole truth but that may cause resentment.
Sorry if I've me no sense but I'm so mad right now and purposefully left things out to not out me.
AIBU/WWYD/baabaablacksheephaveyouanywool?