When me and my ex were together, all his friends became my friends too. There was the football team he played for, and 3 blokes we worked together with. i got on really well with these 3 blokes. They were also very close to my ex too.
one of them played for the football team so i used to sit with his girlfriend and i got on well with her.
when me and ex split up, i think a lot of them stopped speaking to him. I stayed in touch with the 3 blokes for a couple of months after we split up but then decided to stop. Its been about 7 months since i spoke to them but every now and then i get a text from one of them or the girlfriend asking how i am and if i want to meet up.
I feel out of order, but they all remind me of my ex and i just want to cut anything reminding me of him out of my life.
Am i being unfair by doing this?