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to ask if anyone ventured into a new career at 40?

42 replies

FionaGatwick · 28/10/2016 22:42

How was it?

I'll be almost 40 when I start my new career.

It makes me feel sad and terrified.

OP posts:
Hooleywhipper · 29/10/2016 02:10

Second year into my degree in counselling, I am 46.

FionaGatwick · 29/10/2016 20:42

Thanks everyone. I'm terrified, yet excited :) I wish I did not waste time with my previous career, but that's spilt milk now.

OP posts:
hotdiggedy · 29/10/2016 20:46

Not sure what your past career was, but surely it has been useful to you somehow! Is 40 old btw? I often see threads about starting new jobs at 40 and people worrying about them.

summertimeover · 29/10/2016 20:52

Wow this thread could be me. After 5 awesome years as a SAHM my new career, in a totally different field, starts on Monday. I have my dream job (not sure how I got it!) and I am scared, excited, nervous, exhilarated all rolled into one. Monday is day 1 of my new life. I am starting at the bottom but I don't care. :-)) Good luck OP!

summertimeover · 29/10/2016 20:52

I should add I am 38!

hotdiggedy · 29/10/2016 21:02

I don't know why I'm asking this because the answers will vary hugely but its something that's on my mind a lot and I'm feeling quite unhappy with the amount I earn. So, what is your ideal (and realistic) full time salary for when you hit 40?

suchafuss · 29/10/2016 22:20

I will be 50 when I qualify as a Social Worker!

Temporaryanonymity · 29/10/2016 22:25

I'm 41 and work in a business support function similar to marketing. I've recently discussed a sideways move into operational management with my director. I'm hoping to do this in the next five years when my sons are a little older. It will be a new career in a similar industry and I'm so excited about it.

JenniferYellowHat1980 · 31/10/2016 08:15

I'm planning to go back to uni in September aged 40. The thought of a £54k bill plus interest terrifies me but I keep telling myself it's not real debt. It's the only way to earn over £18k in the rural area where I live without returning to teaching (I've taught in England and Wales and it's dire). Nervous about being the mature student who always has something to say who I remember from my first degree. Need to practise keeping my mouth shut sometimes.

Sheld0n · 31/10/2016 14:44

I'm in my mid-twenties and am back at uni doing a PhD. It will be a career change at the end of it, and I really worried before starting that I'd left it too late and so on, but now I don't think it's ever too late to make a change. I'm really glad I made the choice to go back. I think you'll be glad you did it OP, don't be nervous. Grin

Sheld0n · 31/10/2016 14:45

P.S. I was also in a job I absolutely hated beforehand, and doing something you actually want to do and enjoy is definitely worth it, you'll be much happier!

ClaudiaApfelstrudel · 31/10/2016 15:00

I've been looking for a new profession for years now, I'm a teacher and I absolutely loathe it

julietbat · 31/10/2016 15:05

I'm 42 and a part-time secondary school teacher (with primary age kids). I'm mid way through a masters which will hopefully get me on to a PhD course the year after next. I will be 47 by the time I qualify and I'm seeing my advanced age experience as a positive! I'm just really excited to have a second chance to forge a new career Smile

Babyelephant3 · 25/10/2019 10:46

Jumping on the bandwagon but anyone left nursing?
What did you go onto do? Also 40 😊

JudasHisCarrot · 25/10/2019 10:58

I started training for a new career after having kids and I'll be 37 when I qualify (if I pass all of my assessments!). Good luck OP!

Monr0e · 25/10/2019 11:01

I'm 44 and just qualified as a midwife. Also terrified!

Why are you sad? Is it because you didn't do it sooner? I've felt like this also but then realised I probably wouldn't be where I am now without the life experience I have gained along the way in my previous careers.

Muckycat · 25/10/2019 11:13

I'm looking to get into grad medicine mid 30s so will hopefully be starting out as a Dr late 30s early 40s and I think that gives me plenty of time to establish a good long career.

My retired mum retrained as a nurse starting at, I think, 40-41 and had nearly 20 years at a career she loved.

40ish seems like a good point for changing to me, still decades to go at work but plenty of life experience behind you.

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