rsvp to my twins 9th bday party???

[xxme2uxxbingo]

ok next Friday its my twins boy/girl 9th birthday im going to throw them there first bday halloween themed bday party - we have recently moved school only 15mins from there last school so they have invited some from new school some from old the place informs me I can have 40 children so I sent invites 2 weeks ago and done the rsvp which cut out 2 days ago as I have to give numbers to the place that's holding the party so there is 23 that have rsvp all can come 3 have asked about siblings but 13 that havnt bothered to rsvp at all so I take that as a NO so with the 3 siblings makes 26 - im going to tell the party hall to do food for 30 they do it per child no buffet style and I have done 30 party bags but im scared now that 13 that's didn't rsvp will just show up and I cant caiter for them and to make matters worse because there all going to be dressed up in Halloween make-up plus a few children I hardly know as we just moved schools I cant see who has rsvp and who hasn't so I cant tell them I havnt got nothing for them cus they never rsvp'd :( wish I never bothered now - wish some rude parents would just send me a bloody text its also bad that that 19 of my dd friends are going but only 4 of my ds :(

I would put the names of those who have accepted on stickers and when they arrive get them to point to the name with the sticker. If there is no sticker let them know that they are welcome to come in but no party bag or food.

I think adding a message on to invites such as 'No RSVP No admittance' is now required for such things.

I think the name badge idea is excellent and tough luck to all those who's parents didn't RSVP but bought their children anyway. The parents can explain why they didn't get food and a party bag as this was their cock up not yours OP.

Any chance you could use punctuation please OP? That was very hard to read.