Disclaimer before I start: I love the NHS. I completely support universal free healthcare. I know the system is under unbelievable pressures and have always happily put up with the compromises that have to be made for that e.g. waiting 2 weeks for a routine GP appointment, seeing a different GP every time and having to explain my whole back story, calling up at 8am to compete for that day's emergency appointments...
However six months ago I saw a consultant and was referred to another department for diagnosis of a suspected condition. That department took 3 months to reply saying they didn't have a consultant specialising in that condition and I'd need to be referred out of area. After a month passed and nothing happened I chased up to find that neither my GP or the hospital thought it was their responsibility to make that referral, and moreover wouldn't even talk to each other, each just telling me to call the other. Only after a further month passed and I complained did the referral finally get made. After another month passed and nothing was heard, I chased up with the out of area hospital to find they had received nothing: referral had been incorrectly addressed. Again I had to call the original hospital and chase up (the out of area service didn't offer to call themselves) and get it resent. Although I've had confirmation the referral has finally been received, I am still waiting for an appointment.
Six months down the line of being referred for a diagnosis I don't even have an appointment. It's only because I intervened myself several times and acted as liaison between various departments of the NHS who wouldn't talk to each other that it's not longer. Nobody at any point even said a simple 'sorry'. I was promised at various stages that I'd be called back and the calls never came. This isn't even about treatment or services, this is basic admin and processes.
AIBU to be disappointed in a system I've always tried my best to believe in?
I'm at the stage where if a 1-2% increase to income tax was proposed that would go entirely to the NHS, I'd say do it. Surely a national health service is only worth having if you can actually access the services when you need them.