I've done a bit of online dating before I had my Son. I found most guys were lovely but there were always a few who were just after sex and nothing more. I'm not someone who would ever have sex outside of a committed relationship so I'm just not interested in meeting up with strangers for casual sex.
Normally it's really obvious when a guy is just after one thing and I can spot them a mile off before even meeting up.
This will be my first date after being single for two years since my Son was born and splitting from his Dad.
I've been chatting to a guy for a week now and we have been getting on well when speaking on the phone so decided to arrange a date for Monday at a wine bar we both like.
A few minutes ago he text me asking what I was upto. I explained that I was just watching tv. He then sent me a text asking if I needed any company and he could come to my house to keep me company and have a cuddle!
I'm a bit gutted really as this to me is the equivalent to 'netflix and chill' and is code for having sex. My male friends are gentleman and would never have asked a woman if she wanted to meet at his or her house on a first meeting! Am I being a bit too judgemental or am I right to think this shows his intention is just for a hook up?
I replied saying sorry I do not have strangers in my house and he replied, apologising and saying he was just joking. I doubt he was though.
I am a bit sceptical as sadly my friend using online dating but is a bit naive and often has guys over at her house when they ask to see her there. She often is sad and says she ended up having sex with them as she felt pressurised/ that it would make them be her boyfriend.
AIBU to no longer want to meet up for a date?