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Are you a bad mum if you don't buy...

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btfly2 · 18/10/2016 21:48

to your children Clarks, Start Rite, Hampton school shoes? Would you think badly of me...? In our school it's the non written norm but I'm thinking to be brave and break the rules...aibu ?? ;)

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PickAChew · 20/10/2016 19:02

Duchess, most feet do respond well to barefoot shoes because they help t strengthen the supporting muscles. Unfortunately, when feet are severely hypermobile to the point of severe over-pronation, muscle tone enough isn't enough and more lasting damage can be done to unsupported joints, in the meantime.

My toes love a bit of time in a barefoot shoe. I had to get rid of my Vivi barefoot shoes, though, gorgeous as they were, as I kept falling over in them. I'm doing better in some cute Nike free 5.0 as they have a little arch support built in, but I can't Galway with them on consecutive days. I need something a lot more structured like dart 11 or a nice sturdy (but not stiff, or they shred my feet) boot.

The sole also makes a difference. No dainty rounded soles, like Clark's seem to be so fond of in woman's shoes. I need stability. When I try on shoes, I deliberately stand on my wobbly foot. If can't hold it for a second or two, it's a don't buy because it's not doing the job I need it to.

And by virtue of the fact that I can walk 5km without fatigue, I've built up my calf muscles, anyhow. I d reached a point where there was an inch difference in calf circumference between my OK and bad foot. I've managed reduce it to half an inch, by wearing the right footwear.

oneleggedfatbird · 20/10/2016 19:05

I hate the monopoly that Clarks seem to have on kids shoes
I've taken to getting my kids DMs now they've stopped growing. I've had four pairs in my adult life- each pair lasting about a decade Smile

TanteJeanne · 20/10/2016 19:16

I buy Clarks while my children are young, for the fitting expertise. The shoes themselves are not durable- the uppers are fine but the soles wear down within a half term and lose all their grip.
As soon as I am confident my child can tell me whether the shoes fit comfortably, I buy Next school shoes... considerably cheaper and more durable.

ALOndon · 20/10/2016 19:17

No...if it fits properly whats the issue? Did you wear clarks as a child?!! I didnt!!

KitKats28 · 20/10/2016 19:18

I wish I had discovered how good DMs were when my kids were younger. My daughter went through shoes so quickly until I bought some DMs in the outlet for £20 which lasted her last 18 months at school and are still going strong.

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BrianMolkoismyPlacebo · 20/10/2016 19:30

thejunction take a look at vivo barefoot shoes. They all have a width of k as they believe also that the shoe should be wide. They are also very flexible due to the nature of the sole

girlwithamoonandstaronherhead · 20/10/2016 19:33

I was toly by a physio that Clarkes etc were no different to any other shoes, as long as the shoes fit well.
DS1 had a lovely pair of Kickers last year that I got in the sale. This year I got him some unbranded £20 ones, so far they seem to be fairing OK.

btfly2 · 20/10/2016 19:38

Thanks a lot for all the replies! I'm glad you follow the thread with interest. I discovered a whole new range of makers and styles for children shoes thanks to you .
I also feel happy to have mumsnet for some company, I'm feeling very very lonely lately related to friendships...but that will takes us to another thread !
Thanks again lovely bunch of mumsnetters!

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angstybaby · 20/10/2016 19:45

my 5 yo now has to have arch supports after getting arch pain after wearing clarks doodles on holiday. i ended up with similar pain from a pair of clarks sandals too...

ProphetOfDoom · 20/10/2016 19:48

Consistently, year-in year-out my ds are in Geox; they can get a whole school year out of them usually. Younger ds is allowed the ones with the rubberised toe cap that means he can play football, climb tyres with nary a scuff- they're indestructible. Older ds is in the Geox smart square-toed shoe and they've lasted well too.

DD is in a thick soled brogue from an independent shoe shop having worn through the soles of most girl's shoes in a term. Ricosta & Petasil have also been good.

The initial outlay is a bit more than the price of Clarkes but actually has proven to be more cost effective than replacing Clarks at £35+ a term. I don't buy supermarket school shoes as mine need the variety in width fitting but they're good for school PE trainers & party shoes.

Interested though in the minimalist shoes

GladGran · 20/10/2016 20:35

Baqby Ganoush - you are courting trouble for your poor children in later years unless they have "average" feet - which no-one does! I have narrow feet and always have had correct AA fittings, until I came to work in a rural area where I was unable to get them and had to settle for a B fitting. I promptly developed bunions. I now have to buy shoes by mail order (only 2 firms in UK sell AA and all imported) at great expense but no worsening of my bunions since being able to purchase the correct size again. Look at Victoria Beckham's shoes sometime - they don't fit and she has awful feet.

mudandmayhem01 · 20/10/2016 21:05

Btfly2 I like these kind of threads when I feel a bit low too, stay away from aibu and just have a nice natter with helpful people about everyday stuff x

Passenger42 · 20/10/2016 21:11

I think it should be compulsory for schools and nurserys to measure kids feet and each term and inform the parents. My SIL insists that her DS has small feet and takes no notice of my mum who points out his shoes look too small. I think it's awful toddlers have to suffer for the sake of fashion because ignorant mothers want them to wear timberland boots and converse that offer no support or comfort just so they look cool. Buy in the sales and look on Jones outlet for start rite bargains leather shoes are always the best!

TeacherBob · 20/10/2016 21:17

Yes make schools measure feet

Genius!!!!

Reebs123 · 20/10/2016 21:59

No. My DD1 finds larks shoes comfortable. Anything else gives her blisters. Whatever fits your kids feet properly is best.

Reebs123 · 20/10/2016 22:00

Clarks

kazlau · 20/10/2016 22:05

I saw a podiatrist with my middle daughter over 28 years ago as she had an odd pinky toe. I said to him should I make sure I buy Clarks or Startright shoes and he told me as long as the shoes fitted her correctly with growing room I could put her in any shoe!

SueTrinder · 20/10/2016 22:29

Haven't bought any Clarks since DD1 got blisters from a pair. So much for 'properly fitting' shoes. Another vote for barefoot shoes here, we get school shoes from Happy Little Soles or from Vivobarefoot.

sandbagsatdawn · 20/10/2016 22:32

Re "measuring properly", I have heard loads of people say Clarks assistants have fitted them wrongly or given them the wrong size since the right size were out of stock and said it'll be okay.

It's not rocket science to fit your own child's shoes. I downloaded a paper measure from Startrite that measures length and width, then bought last years' Startrite shoes on ebay (new just old styles). I do rate Startrite for quality more than Clarks but have also had good shoes from elsewhere. If they are leather then they are fine, if synthetic they will scuff and look rubbish very quickly.

LynetteScavo · 20/10/2016 22:35

I'm a Ricosta fan myself. £60 a pair, but they LAST. I know someone who had been through 2 pairs of cheap shoes already this term...but you get what you pay for.

Clarks don't even make shoes to fit DD. Hmm

simiisme · 20/10/2016 22:42

My two boys are very heavy on their shoes. Best pair - Kangol £16:99 from Sports Direct. Proper, old-fahioned, 'police' style, leather lace-ups.

Needabreakfrommybrain · 20/10/2016 22:43

Geox all the way! Kids never want to take them off they are so comfortable.

Sittingonthedockofthebay · 20/10/2016 22:43

Didn't get on with clarks, shoes pricey and didn't last, went to happy little soles on line and they were great, really helpful giving exact measurements for each shoe brand and my boys (who have radically differing feet) both got great 'barefoot' shoes. Really pleased with them and great fitting advice.

Marymoosmum14 · 20/10/2016 22:51

YANBU I have found that my DD gets more compliments on the shoes we get from ASDA than Clarks tbh. Also we looks everywhere for some shoes for her for our wedding and could not find any smart white shoes to go with her flower girl dress, the only shoes we could find suitable were in Primark. The price doesn't matter.