to expect my husband to remember my birthday

[wakeupandsmellthecoffee]

notice I didnt write Darling Husband

oh dear

milk it

my mum forgot mine one year - she won't forget again...

ps happy birthday!

Happy birthday!

He's an arse.

However wait a few years and your DCs will be old enough to make sure he can't forget it. Mine love birthdays, anyone's birthdays.

Was going to say same as Orm. When your child is of a decent talking age, he will remind him. SHould put him to shame.

4 bunches of flowers tonight and a grovelling card . Still dosnt make up for it but hey ho he is still an arse though . LOL

It sucks. Dh forgot my first mother's day last year, then proceeded to forget my birthday as well. I really didn't need it with PTSD. I guess I kind of hoped he'd realise how down I was, and how important it would be simply to remember. Ha.

So many men are just useless this way. I think we need to tell them what we expect, every time, for about 10 years or so. Even then, they will probably forget as often as not. shakes head

P.S. Fizzbuzz you are a legend! I think I'll try this next time

Mine would forget if it weren't for the fact that I spend the whole month running up to my b'day reminding him. You know: in x amount of days it will be my b'day make sure you surprise me or else. It works and I've noticed that slowly but surely he's starting to remember by himself
P.S. he also can't remember our dc's b'days even though he was there at the birth

I think you are entitled to tease him unmercifully about losing brownie points and reminding him how lucky he is to have you and muttering dark threats about how neglected wives may go off and leave husbands as sad lonely old men .....

my ex almost always forgot my birthday altho it was the same month just a reversal of numbers of his own bday. I mean how can anyone forget that?!?! 😂 it just told me how much I didn’t matter. It was one of many reasons why he’s an ex.