ExDh takes kids to park on Sundays. Last week MIL dropped them off. I haven't spoken to her in a long time. I didn't see her or her car as she drove off.
I asked how they all fit. Dh said MIL car has 4 seatbelts in back.
She drops them off again today and I notice car looks small.
ExDH was getting a lift so didn't speak to him.
Just txt him and he admitted DS is on booster. Dd in middle and 2 eldest 'share ' a seatbelt.
I'm fuming.
I have always been SUPER vigilant with car safety. I don't drive and have gotten the bus with 4 kid for an hour in the rain rather than ride in a car without the correct car seats. He knows this.
And he lied. He told me to my face there was 4 belts.
AIBU to contact MIL (for the first time in years) to tell her I do not want the kids getting a lift again. Because even though ExDH has promised he wont I don't feel I can trust him. (I can see him getting dropped off round the corner etc...)
Though it would probably cause a shit storm if he found out I've contacted her about it.