for needing to rant on here? IF I am, I don't care, I'm doing it anyway

[MamaCampbellBlack]

I came home from a long day in Court today. I was loading the dishwasher and he came in the kitchen and said these exact words:-

"its groundhog day. Every day you come home from work, start rattling about emptying and filling the dishwasher, then you just talk to and play with the kids, put them to bed then start rattling about in the kitchen making dinner. You ignore me"

Poor Diddums! Eff off DH, you make the fecking dinner then! If the dishwasher was emptied & filled by you when you are AT HOME ALL DAY I wouldn't have to start doing it WOULD I! Of course I play with the kids, I only see them for 45 mins (ds) before bed! I only work 3 days a week, but you work 2 and when you get home, I've done all the bloody housework AND made dinner etc, you just sit on your fucking arse!

Now stop being a fucking ponce.

feel better now.

I think he needs a good kicking

err you tell him mama....
i had a long day in court too , think it was the same one??
when i got in AFTER dh and started tidying up the kitchen and putting the food i had bought on way home away dh says "i didnt start cooking or anything because i didnt know what was for supper...." GRRRRRR look in the feckin fridge then / use your imagination etc.
we ended up having a takeaway as i decided i'd had enough!

ooh maybe it was the same one - was yours the one where the "learning" Judge was sitting in on the case, looked just like Wallace out of Wallce & Grommit and fell asleep - DJ had to poke him in the ribs

I'm with strangefruit! I never get dinner made for me on my days at work but DH gets dinner made for him, lovingly, nutritiously, containing all necessary food groups when he's at work. Or rather, he did. Next week when I'm off I'm going to say, didn't know what you fancied for dinner so thought I'd wait until you got in. See how well that goes down. The end of a beautiful marriage it'll be!

Is that YOU BTW?

yes

how are you? Not seen you for aagges!

kbear maybe we could start a kicking squad

bLOODY hell, oops, yes, kicking is in order.
Unless his name really is Rupert, in which case a shagging instead

gerrof Rupert, I'm trying to moan about you

oh sorry, didn't see you there WWW

MCB your dh needs to HEAR what you are saying here!

well maybe not about Rupert

I'm okay - been here on and off. Just had DD's birthday so was up to eyeballs last week being party organiser of the year! I DO go over the top - took me all day to undecorate the house!

nope mama.... no snoring in my courtroom (well not today anyway) lol

I know fruity, I know

controlfreaky, I bet nobody would dare fall asleep in your courtroom

KBear - you are the Queen of Parties! Do you feel old having an 8 year old and your baby being at school?!

oh mama...did you point out to him, that you wouldn't need to do all that if he helped wiht the chores?

My dh asked me yesterday (well shouted at me) "WTF do you do all day?"

He soon stopped when he seen the steam coming from my ears and has called me 3 times today with the promise of making it up on Valentines day...

I agree with others...kick him!!

THe problem is we start our "usual" argument as we bought a house that needs work

HIM - well I've been doing all the DIY - when you pick up a paintbrush, I'll start helping with the housework

ME - Well, housework needs doing every day, not just at weekends like DIY

HIM - When the house is done i'll help - why don't you help me decorate etc etc etc

on and on and on and on

As I HATE decorating and was knackered after my day, I just couldn't be arsed (puff)

oh oh mellow - AND he said he's not getting my anything for Val Day as its commercial rubbish

Fucking C

If he doesn't I'm going to wee in his flask

oh dear you haven't a leg to stand on my lovely

get your paintbrush out and stop being such a girl

Yes do THAT!! Dh used to pee me off occasionally (understatement) when we were first married...he also drinks protein shakes.

He would not let ds into the bathroom one night for a wee as he was having a bath,so I let ds wee in this father protein drink...

I hate decorating wiht a passion

I'm not doing it, I won't

he should fill the dishwasher at least

rofl mellow!!!!!!!!!

what part of decorating don't you like?

idly painting the glosswork while listening to the radio is, I find, rather zen-like

I love it

no its the "you've missed a bit. Watch that drip. Theres a hair in the paint" commentary over my shoulder

It would be OKish him not making the dinner and you not painting the walls, if he hadn't complained about you making the dinner.