Am I rude to cancel?!

[Msqueen33]

I'm meant to be meeting a school Mum friend for coffee tomorrow. Once again I'm awake at three am with my three year old (she has autism). I feel like utter crap. My husband is home tomorrow so after we've shared the school run (cannot leave him to it as he's disorganised and last time forgot to give our middle DC the medication they needed). I really want to collapse into bed and sleep. Is it rude to cancel? Will I offend her?

Would love to know what you decided. Whatever you did, I hope you feel better. As the Mother of a Son with HFA, I can only sympathise with your lack of sleep. He is an adult now, but I remember the exhaustion I felt for at least the first five years of his life. Also, from experience with my dh, I'm sure it's not as simple as some would think to leave your dh to get the dcs to school.