DS started at a very prestigious (and bloody expensive) 6th Form boarding school in September. It's very relevant that this was his choice, he worked very hard to be accepted, and had to jump through many hoops to get there. DH and I were very supportive though, and rightly proud of his achievements. Also relevant that he has never boarded before.
DS has always been very close to DH and I, we've always done lots together, and have common interests, and a great relationship.
However, since he left to go to school, we have had one phone call in the first three weeks (after repeated requests for one). He also ignored nearly all text messages. I found this very upsetting, and hurtful but tried to accept he was busy, settling in etc.
He came home for a visit last weekend, and was his normal, lovely self. He's loving school, which is obviously great. I explained to him that his lack of contact was hurtful, and we agreed that he would call home once a week, on a Saturday. No phone call yesterday. And no response to text messages (which are definitely getting through). His phone contract is in my name, and I pay for it. AIBU to cut it off tomorrow, as he's not using it for the purpose I intended? ie to call his worried mother?! I can't decide whether he's just being a 'normal' 16 year old, or an ungrateful, entitled little shit? Sadly, I bet he'd soon make contact to find out why his phone was no longer working...😩