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To think that the prosecution of these boys was inevitable but depressing

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travellinglighter · 02/10/2016 09:55

www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/romford-attack-teenagers-charged-after-assault-on-boy-15-in-park-a3357801.html

I have seen the video of this happening and frankly it really depresses me. You listen to the “gangsta speak" and wonder what the hell do we do with people who would do this sort of thing. The assault is bad enough but the fact it seems so normal to them that they would post it on social media. Insult added to injury It’s almost a badge of honour for them to act like a bullying bastard.

What punishment will they receive?? It won’t be adult prison and any prison time means that they will be unemployable (not sure they were hugely employable in the first place). If they are fined??? Big deal, I suspect that whatever happens, rather than vilification from their peers they will get kudos for being a hard man.

What can you do to these kids (and they are just big kids) that will make them worthwhile citizens?? I can’t think of anything.

I have kids who have to go out in the world where people like this wander the streets. Thank god I live in a small town on the right side of the Welsh border but we have our feral element as well and I wonder how many of them see this and think “That looks like fun.”

How do you teach your kids to be streetwise enough to avoid these situations? Lets face it, no amount of self defence lessons would have saved this boy from older, stronger more aggressive teenagers.

The kids both have a phone that are a worth a lot of money, it’s time to talk to them about not getting the phone out in public. Avoiding back streets and parks where large groups gather. Isn’t it awful that I potentially have to scare them like this.

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graphista · 02/10/2016 14:58

Interesting people citing other European countries with fewer problems of this kind. Did you know eg that in Italy the parents of criminally acting children can be sued by both the victims family and the state? In several if the child is under age of criminal responsibility parents held accountable.

Amelie10 · 02/10/2016 15:02

I have no sympathy for those dogs. They should be imprisoned for a very long time. Their type should be kept away from a civil society.

HerFaceIsaMapOfTheWorld · 02/10/2016 15:16

kierenthecommunity
They really don't and great for your indirect racist comment about jamaicans.

kierenthecommunity · 02/10/2016 15:33

If you've been to inner city east Leeds, I welcome your feedback. Presuming you've been no where near I think I can speak from experience that they 100% do. (Well the wannabe gangstas do)

And do me a favour, racist comments against Jamaicans. Explain how it's remotely racist and I'm all ears.

travellinglighter · 02/10/2016 15:33

Can I start by saying that I apologise for the right side of the border, I keep forgetting that I can say right and wrong side of the border when I'm involved in banter with friends but it"s out of context on here.

As for military service, I'm ex military and I saw more casual violence in the military than I ever saw outside of the military. Why weaken our armed forces by giving them recruits who they don't want, who don't want to be there and who they probably wouldn't pick even if they did try to get in.

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