I probably ABU....
Got a DD who's 2.5, and another baby on the way. The baby on the way has been diagnosed with downs syndrome, and has a major heart problem that requires open heart surgery in its first few months (with heart problems until then).
At the latest heart appointment I asked about the risk to baby given DD goes to nursery and is a germ machine (as are all 2 year olds!). They said not to worry about colds etc, but to get flu jabs and flagged a particular concern about chickenpox given DD hasn't had it yet. It was agreed that it was best if DD could be vaccinated against CP.
Spoke to the GP, and said I would be prepared to pay if necessary, but obviously would prefer not to as it's for sound medical reasons. Anyway, got a call to book it, and DD had dose 1 this morning. At the appointment, they said we did have to pay, and it would be £80.
Now, we will pay, as for me it's worth the £80 to have the extra protection for the baby. But, we can't really afford it, and it seems a bit harsh to have to pay when there's a genuine medical reason to have it.
So AIBU in thinking given the circumstances, we shouldn't have to pay.