Aibu to be upset that dp did nothing for my birthday?

[PeppasNanna]

I must start off by saying EVERYONE knows I think birthdays are important.
I go to alot of effort to plan dp & my dcs birthdays.

Dp was, by coincidence on a rest day today. He slept through our 2 yr old roaring her head off this morning. So I got no lay in. He still hadnt got up when I went out at 9am. I got all the dc ready for school as usual.

I did a few errends this morning.
Presumed dp would have made some plans for lunch today... nothing.

I'm really offended. I actually cried earlier as i feel so unappreciated.

AIBU?

Yanbu it's shitty of him.

Yep - it's rotten of him. But if it makes you feel any better, my 40th birthday present from my husband was a jar of picked onions. The cheapest economy ones.

Since our divorce I have lovely birthdays - I take myself to the cinema or theatre, nice meal somewhere - and don't have to rely on anyone else.

Good luck.