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Can I simply be prescribed Antidepressants?

44 replies

BlondieLoxie · 24/09/2016 18:37

Hi there.
I suffer bad with anxiety and I suspect that I suffer with mild depression too.

I've been on the waiting list for counselling for way too long. It's beginning to impact my everyday life and I need a quick fix until my counselling is available.

Will the doctors prescribe this?

Thanks

OP posts:
MothersGrim · 24/09/2016 19:46

I had bad anxiety and the doctor prescribed me beta blockers, as an alternative to anti-depressants.

I've also had anti-depressants had have nothing but wonderful things to say about them Flowers Placebo or not I didn't have any adverse effects and I was not on them long term.

I always feel better after talking to my doctor about how I am feeling. I don't notice it at the time but it is always a turning point in my recovery. I was reading a Woo thread on here and advice is to turn and say to your ghost "You are not welcome, go away". I wonder if seeing the GP is my non-woo fix for depression!

Blue2014 · 24/09/2016 19:47

There's an antidepressant that can be prescribed for anxiety as well, I forget what it's called but maybe ask for that?

echelon · 24/09/2016 19:51

Ada
I think that's quite a generalisation. Those are side effects that affect some people. Not all.

I have been on SSRIs for 12 years and I accept that I need to be on them, some people do, unfortunately.

I am able to orgasm and my libido isn't affected much.

HeirOfNothingInParticular · 24/09/2016 20:07

I was prescribed AD's last year at a time when I was struggling with my DHs life threatening diagnosis, and also very unhelpful work. A colleague who I respect very much, and is a mental health professional, suggested that I consider taking a course of AD's, which I did. I'm not really sure how I got along with them... I have tapered myself off them for the last month. I think that whilst I was taking them I had a bit of brain fog going on, but it's hard to explain. I decided to come off a few weeks ago, but no real help from GP, Luckily for me I have another colleague who is a practicing mental health nurse, and they were able to give me some really good advice about tapering off. I think back and wish I had never taken ADs, but perhaps they were the best course for me at the time.

mrsspratt · 24/09/2016 20:07

I take Citalopram for anxiety and depression and have found them to be very effective. For me, it took 2 weeks until they started to have an effect.
Everyone is different some people do have side-effects but not all.
If you are struggling to cope please go and talk to your GP. You don't have to live with debilitating anxiety.

needakick000 · 24/09/2016 20:09

I started taking them after my husband walked out on my, completely out of the blue. I didn't sleep, couldn't eat and felt anxious all the time to the extent that I had mild panic attacks. I had not history of anxiety whatsoever. I am now having some private counselling too but the antidepressants help me to get trough solicitors and bank appointments as I can now actually think straight. I am on a very low dose and they just about take the edge off. I still feel emotions.

I know everyone is different but for me they certainly have been a life saver, and I was apprehensive at the beginning when my gp suggested them.

needakick000 · 24/09/2016 20:10

sorry about typos Blush

PacificDogwod · 24/09/2016 20:13

SSRIs can have an effect on libido/ability to orgasm.
Depression can have an effect on libido/ability to orgasm.

Varies wildly from person to person, and from AD to AD. And sometimes even from episode to episode of depression in the same person.
Confused

You'll not know until you've tried.

MorrisZapp · 24/09/2016 20:15

I'm going to stick my neck out here and say that anybody who won't take ADs in case of effect on libido almost certainly doesn't need the ADs anyway.

Ssri medication saved my life. They're not perfect, there are downsides. But being alive for my son and feeling like myself again are such a huge upside that the cons barely register.

AdaLovelacesCat · 24/09/2016 20:17

True, Zapp, i did not mind not feeling horny.
But when I tried to stop taking them , I was left with the female equivalent of a permanant stiffie. It was not fun.

mygorgeousmilo · 24/09/2016 20:23

A very very close friend of mine, the very closest - experienced what you have described. The anxiety and then feeling absolutely nothing. She also worried that she wasn't able to parent properly whilst feeling his way. After much tweaking of doses she is now like a different person, so consistent and motivated, has a lovely relationship with her kids. My point is, it won't be a quick fix, but maybe starting on a low dose and seeing how it goes, really could help you in such incredible ways. I know people are often wary of taking medication, but most of us would take whatever was available if faced with cancer or HIV or something... It's no different really, your mental and emotional health is so important. Speak to your GP and see if they agree to start on a low dose

TyrionLannisterforKing · 24/09/2016 20:25

OP, I have been taking anti depressants since I was eight years old (talk about issues...) so I am unable to give a statement regarding the state of my libido while taking them, besides the fact that it is very much there.

Like people said, they are not a quick-fix and not only it takes a while to find the correct dosage, it might take a while to find the right medication, too. I am currently on my fourth antidepressant (escitalopram), which has been recently adjusted because of the removal of a mood stabilizer.

Anyway...

The only quick fix I know is in the class of benzodiazepines, which I believe are harder to get and rightly so. Don't go there unless you must.

Antidepressants can be a great aid, and I find they work better along with therapy. So, if you are interested, go ahead, but once your name is called from the waiting list, give therapy a try.

littleprincesssara · 24/09/2016 20:27

Valdoxan is a non-SSRI anti-depressant that works much faster than SSRIs and is known for its relative lack of side effects. Some people get great results on it, some don't. It's relatively new and some GPs have never heard of it.

MorrisZapp · 24/09/2016 20:30

Tyrion, that's interesting what you say about a quick fix. Do you mean valium etc? I get these for occasional sleeping issues and they literally chill me out in about one hour, but the effect isn't ongoing. They're highly addictive so mostly for short term use.

Have you taken them longer term?

stopfuckingshoutingatme · 24/09/2016 20:32

Op why not find a thread here with similarity affected folk ? They can advise what to ask for . Mn can be very useful this way.

Also if you have been though women's aid I am guessing you have had some bad experiences Sad

Onwards op - you can get through this and I hope you get helped

PacificDogwod · 24/09/2016 20:37

Valdoxan is algomelatine and very much a 2nd or even 3rd line treatment for depression/anxiety, IME would be prescribed by psychiatrists if other options have been tried and failed.

PacificDogwod · 24/09/2016 20:38

Sorry, Agomelatine

TolpuddleFarterOATB · 24/09/2016 20:58

I had bad anxiety, and intrusive thoughts at the beginning of the year. I was prescribed fluoxetine (Prozac) and it has changed my life for the good. I don't' think I'd realised how anxious I was until I've spent time living without anxiety.

My libido has increased, btw, so it's not always a worry. And I don't get brain fog, in fact I've read and taken in much more since I've been on the tablets. The only downside I see is I can't see me ever wanting to give them up now, not in an addictive sense, but I don't want to lose the positive changes that have occurred.

MissKatieVictoria · 24/09/2016 21:30

It took me 10 years to actually get prescribed one that made any difference, i went through about 5 different ones before moving from an SSRI to TCA, which has about 60 side effects, but the difference was incredible.

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