To think that if a man messages you about sex all the time

[Lottielou272]

It's the main thing they want from you?

I recently got in touch with a man who I haven't seen since we were children. He says he likes me as a person and finds me interesting. We have had long conversations on the phone (not about sex).

He doesn't live near me, but says he's moving back to this area. He sends me a lot of texts asking for sexy pictures and I've started thing he might only want me for sex. Although he says not - he says he wants us to be more.

Does this sound strange to you?

I think it's strange anyone asks anyone to send them sexy pictures, but I'm old and I have an almost 15 yr old DD. Personally I'd think "creep" and avoid, avoid.

Unless all you want is sex too? In which case, have fun!

No I would want a relationship with this person

I've had casual relationships in the past and ended up being used

Feeling used is what I mean. I'm done with all that

He sounds about 16yo to be honest.

Hard to tell on line but doesn't sound like a good long term bet.

He is very intelligent though - maybe that is clouding my view.

sounds immature and incapable of a relationship. I would probably tell him that too.

Intelligence and maturity are entirely separate attributes.

Five will get you ten that he is either married or in a serious relationship. I would bet that there will be a reason that he cant move to where you are.....