DP and I have been living together for about 12 months.
I work from 7am-5.30pm in a reasonably demanding job.
He stays at home each day, completing the last edits to his Masters thesis and running my small online eBay business.
He has also cooks most of the meals each evening.
We have a cleaner, though he does tidy.
At present, as I am the only one working FT I pay for all of the bills, including gym membership for both of us. He has one of my cards which he does the weekly shop on and pay for anything that he needs.
His thesis is practically finished and only needs edits and proofing.
The business is small, and when I did it myself before I started my new job only took me 3 hours or so a day, Mon-Fri.
I'm tired most of the time at the moment, so admittedly am not much fun or particularly energetic however would like to spend time with him in the evenings and at weekends, even if its just going out for a walk.
However, these times he has spent working on his thesis or doing business things. He has admitted to taking naps during the day when I am working, playing games and watching TV, though he does also tidy, do business stuff and thesis things as well.
Whilst I appreciate everything he does for us at home, AIBU to be a bit put out that he is doing work stuff whilst I am at home wanting to spend time with him when he could be doing it during the day, when I am at the office?