Thank you very much to the posters who replied about the dining.
I shouldn't take over someone else's thread. at a later stage I might start my own and ask for some advice.
We aren't even going into 2018 and I'm just getting a bit bamboozled are trying to work out what's best for all of us :
with two boys who like scary rides and water rides, as do I.
with a husband who doesn't particularly like rides. But he wants to go serious shopping, as do I.
My bil has a place, near the parks, with a pool, but this would mean me doing all the cooking, cleaning, food shopping, which is not a real holiday for me.
maybe one week there and another week at a hotel, with the dining?
Dh also considering trying to stretch it to 3 weeks. and going for a few days or a week in Clearwater or Tampa.
but I'm not sure ds's would like that, might be boring, and they might want to go back to the parks?
I've Even been going to some of the other websites, reading advice, trying to go through everything. it's hard to try and figure out what is best to meet everyone's needs.