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To think the breast is best strategy is all wrong

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SheepOrWine · 26/08/2016 18:20

Just back from the health visitor clinic where I was at in front of an entire wall (no exaggeration) telling me why breast is best. Apparently for one young woman it was the best decision she EVER made. This morning I read about another study which "proves" that breast is best (presumably because the many, many existing studies on this are not enough and they needed another one?) At my NHS antenatal breastfeeding class, more than half of the allocated time was dedicated to the benefits of breastfeeding.

Has anyone ever been persuaded to breastfeed by a poster or a news article? Is there anyone out there who seriously has not yet heard the "breast is best" message? Does the NHS just think women are a bit stupid but if you tell them to do something enough times they will do it?

Wouldn't this money be better spent on helping those women who want to breastfeed to do so successfully? Three months ago I was on a postnatal ward with DD where I received conflicting and often incorrect breastfeeding advice. Every time I buzzed for support a frazzled looking HCA or midwife would come and glance at the latch say "yeah that's fine" and walk off. I asked four times to see the breastfeeding advisor but she never arrived. I was discharged without anyone observing a feed.

8 weeks on I gave up breastfeeding as I just had enough of all the various problems I was having with it and for which I was completely unprepared. Before I had DD the posters were useless as like most women, I already knew I wanted to try to breastfeed. And now, post-breastfeeding, all these posters do is just make me feel guilty. What a waste of money.

LisaMumsnet · 26/08/2016 18:36

No one should ever be made guilty for not breast-feeding - it's a very personal choice and some women, try as they may, can't do it. It's so unfortunate that there's so much conflicting advice out there - and that women don't get the help they need. There are, however, Baby Cafes, The La Leche League and the Breastfeeding Network that offer help and support. Maybe the posters should be advertising those rather than just the BIB message? SheepOrWine, please don't feel guilty - just enjoy your healthy baby, there are plenty of us out there who weren't breastfed and we are 100% fine with it!

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