To want to LTB over skid marks?

[rainbowglitterunicorn]

Dh has issues using the toilet, or more so cleaning in! Every day, skid marks are left down the toilet. There's a loo brush right next to it, and bleach, but he never ever cleans it and I'm fed up of cleaning his skid marks every flipping day. He says it doesn't bother him but it bothers me. I hate walking into our bathroom which I've just cleaned to ins shit stains all down the toilet.

WIBU to LTB over this?

LBT = Leave The Bastart (or Bitch if a woman)
I'd grab him by grubby little ears into the bathroom and tell him to clean up his own shit. Every time!
It's feckin' disrespectful to expect others to clean up YOUR shite!
FFS, some men are just beyond my understanding.

Not sure if I could leave him, I do love him lol. N we've just bought a house. However I wish I would of lived with him before because I would have known all this then beforehand. And I honestly can say it would have been enough for me to call it quits had we not got the house. He also scratches his balls and then smells his fingers after. Im so embarrassed to be telling you all this!! Suppose we can all laugh at this lol. But all that aside I do love and care for him, but why has he got such horrible habits?

He won't shag me when I'm on, Coz it disgusts him the whole period thing, so I reckon if I left my period blood on the toilet he would go mad yeah

Oh yes, periods are the way to go. After all, it doesn't bother you!

Also agree with not washing up, or serving him on dirty plates.

But really the FB is cruel, but might just do the trick as a last resort.

Yeah, something needs to be done. It really pisses me off. N he wonders why I'm always in a mood with him, and it's because of him. Our relationship used to be so good, now I am just getting on at him all the time. My sex drive has lowered a lot. N it's because of all this. It makes me not attracted to him

Kitty If you empty a Mooncup into the loo without putting loo roll in first it tends to stay at the bottom in a little pool...

Just sayin'

Or you could leave it on top of a chest of drawers or something...the tampon..

This is why I'm a lesbitarian

He still does it occasionally - men are gross.

SOME men, UnGoogleable. So are SOME women.

Ohh this seems to be a common theme. We have the same.

BUT - he gets it on towels?! So, apparently when you go to the loo before having a shower you don't need to wipe with toilet paper. WTF?! (on further questioning it's from his mum.
The shower washes it off...uuuhhhh no it doesn't cos you don't use a sponge...it gets on the f**king towel!!!

That turns me into devil woman.

Oh kitty they are gross aren't they? I can honestly say if we didn't have the dc I would've LTB a long time ago. But I just inflict a broken family on them and having to split weekends/holidays/Christmas/birthdays etc just because of his filthy habits. The skid marks, the constant farting (especially at the dinner table ) and the burping competitions he has with himself all.the.time! I hate it, it disgusts me, I find myself more and more repulsed by his behaviour as time goes on.
It's really got to me today because we are on holiday and renting someone else's home. It's bad enough doing it in our toilet at home but to do it in someone else's...... Just so disrespectful. I have 3 sons and I don't want them growing up thinking it's all ok

Just can't inflict that was to say.
Oh pinkie that's just gross! You have to wonder how these "men" were brought up sometimes, how did their mums let them get away with this?!

What liz70 said, but instead of hacking into his account, just take pictures and tag your (D)H in them, and write an appropriate comment.

Rainbowglitterunicorn sounds like it really brings you down like it does me. I think the problem is that they don't see it as a big deal, but to us women it is, a lot more than they like to think. It does get me down/pisses me off. I don't think he has the attitude where he just thinks 'the woman can clean it up' I honestly think he just thinks it's ok to do it and that the toilet doesn't need to be cleaned. Your DH shouldn't be doing it in someone else's home I agree. I just can't get my head around how they can be so filthy n carry on with life as normal thinking it's ok to be like that. And pinkie that's annoying yeah. Why not just use the fucking toilet paper? Not all men are like this, I know guys who are very clean. Just wish mine was. This stuff can break up people but they just don't see it do they?

I tell his mum what he does, she has a go at him about it all the time. She said she can't understand how he has such bad habits as she didn't bring him up that way.

Him - 'it's no big deal'
You 'it's a big deal, I don't expect to clear up the shit of anyone else but our baby, it makes me feel disgusted and in turn not find you attractive.

God, my bloke drives me a little crazy sometimes but some of the behaviour here would be a complete deal breaker for me.
Grimly grim.