DS1 was a bank manager, now in another job. He is 31. He doesn't smoke, rarely drinks and can't afford holidays, let alone saving for his own property. This is the reality of things today. By the time he's paid petrol, car tax, insurance, rent, food, there's sweet f.a. left for savings. A bank manager, yes, you read that properly
Me and my DP are in a similar position. We cannot afford holidays and it's all tightly squeezed. It takes a lot of financial planning for us to stay afloat.
But a LOT of my friends who have minimum wage or just above jobs go on holiday, I don't know how they manage it and I would love to ask but obviously that's not the done thing. I don't know if it's because they have more disposable income because they are entitled to different benefits, housing help, childcare help etc whereas we aren't, or maybe it's debt, I have no clue.
I'm not saying their situations are better than mine or vice versa mind, before people start saying im creating a flat screen TV argument, it's just an observation. I think there's a group of people in society who are stuck in the middle, don't earn enough for luxuries but don't earn as little as to be entitled to government help.