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To say 'Fuck you, Ella's Kitchen, I'll boil my own carrots!'

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missmillimentscardigan · 20/08/2016 11:47

Obviously I get that those pouches can be convenient; I just don't understand the blind adherence to the Ella's Kitchen 'feeding a baby everything from a pouch' idea. Why would you pay probably ten times the cost of a carrot to buy a pouch of pureed carrot? I hate the twee packaging and the stupid baby talk on the packets and cynical marketing guff.

I think parents are led to believe that they couldn't possibly prepare something for their baby to eat themselves, and that it's better and somehow safer, to buy them a pouch of fruit or veg and feed them that instead. So many of my friends, when starting off on weaning their babies, have just bought a load of EK pouches and given them that, and only that. And I find that a bit sad, that parents think that they couldn't /shouldn't cook a parsnip / bit of broccoli for their child, and that the first flavours their baby tries are from a weird vacuum pouch that doesn't even need refrigerating.

I'm no Annabel Karmel, and my children certainly don't eat lovingly prepared homecooked food all the time (hello, beans on toast). But I do enjoy cooking for them and my DH, and so does he. Those pouches have a place, but not at the exclusion of everything else. It's satisfying to see your child eating something you made and that you know is nutritious.

I'm not criticising mothers and fathers for using them; I just feel a bit sad that we are losing and abandoning simple skills, like very basic and inexpensive cooking for children, because baby food companies want us to think that they know better than we do. And they don't!

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MooPointCowsOpinion · 20/08/2016 20:37

My breasts can tell if it's raining.

HoneyDragon · 20/08/2016 20:38

Stop going out in the rain topless

MrsDeVere · 20/08/2016 20:39

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MooPointCowsOpinion · 20/08/2016 20:40

Do I tell you how to live your life!

NeedACleverNN · 20/08/2016 20:41
To say 'Fuck you, Ella's Kitchen, I'll boil my own carrots!'
HoneyDragon · 20/08/2016 20:41

Very fair point Moo, as you were.

MrsDV would you care to joint me in sharing some gin in a pouch and shit in a jar? I think it could be the latest hipster trend?

MrsDeVere · 20/08/2016 20:41

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HoneyDragon · 20/08/2016 20:43

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MooPointCowsOpinion · 20/08/2016 20:43

20 points to NeedacleverNN

Grin
orangebird69 · 20/08/2016 20:44

Moo my ds would gag and vomit on food lumps the size of a grain of rice. So yeah, the supersmooth pouches were a godsend. Unless there's some jazzy pureeing, pith, fibrous content and skin removing fork I don't yet know about?

HoneyDragon · 20/08/2016 20:44

Not when they do it with Iceland pizza MrsDv.

TheEagle · 20/08/2016 20:44
  • 'blw ' is a monumentally poncy label for something we have been doing for centuries. Give it a label though and people can feel superior about it.*

YY to this Grin

TheEagle · 20/08/2016 20:44

Bold fail Angry

orangebird69 · 20/08/2016 20:45

'blw' is a monumentally poncy label for something we have been doing for centuries.
Give it a label though and people can feel superior about it.'

A-fucking-men

HoneyDragon · 20/08/2016 20:46

Aaaaaw c'mom people. If bow didn't exist we'd never have had the Hungry Caterpillar blw buffet thread. I loved that thread.

Sourpuss123 · 20/08/2016 20:52

We are having building work done and have been without a kitchen for over 4 weeks.

These pouches have been a lifesaver for my 6 month old.

Don't judge other parents who use them for whatever reason. If you don't like them, don't buy them, simple.

NeedACleverNN · 20/08/2016 20:52

Grin I get points. What can I buy with my points? Lemme guess...an Ella's Kitchen pouch?

splendide · 20/08/2016 20:52

That thread was amazing. It was a floor level buffet for 1 year olds, right? Or have I exaggerated it?

MooPointCowsOpinion · 20/08/2016 20:54

You trade them in for Dumbledore's affection. At least, that's how it goes in the book.

missmillimentscardigan · 20/08/2016 20:55

orangebird - well, your situation was kind of different then, if your ds was only able to eat super smooth purées. You do what you have to so your child can eat. No one's having a go at you; it's just a discussion!

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MooPointCowsOpinion · 20/08/2016 20:55

Sourpuss what are you eating?

MrsDeVere · 20/08/2016 20:59

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MooPointCowsOpinion · 20/08/2016 20:59

Orangebird I would recommend reading up on gagging in babies if you're planning on doing the weaning thing again in the future. It's perfectly normal, the gagging reflex is in the middle of the tongue in babies and it moves back in the throat much later. They gag when food is on their tongue, not near their throat. It's a way to safely practise moving food around the mouth. If a baby isn't exposed to lumps and solids early, they don't get the training that helps them cope with lumps.

I suspect you have a huge journey ahead of you in trying to get your child to eat solid food, and I wish you all the best, as I don't envy your struggles.

HoneyDragon · 20/08/2016 20:59

splendide that's the one.

NeedACleverNN · 20/08/2016 21:01

My Dd used to do the gagging on lumps too. Normal food she was fine with. She is one of the best eaters in my extended family so purée worked for her

Ds just ate anything but because he was CMPA, I was so worried about what food he could and couldn't have, that jars and pouches took a weight off my mind. He now is a brilliant eater too.