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Tony & guy

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LoveScarlet64 · 19/08/2016 10:47

My partner kindly offered to treat me to a new haircut and we decided to go to Toni & Guy. I told them I wanted something different, change in style suggestions I have nice brown hair,keep the length don't cut short. I also asked for highlights sort of a light brown I liked Chrissy's hair from Emmerdale. I showed them a pic of a balayage also in a magazine It looked lovely. They told me the highlights I wanted would not suit me and I didn't want to have that but they suggested the balayage would be better, with the cut it would cost £120 !! I told them I was going on holiday in a couple days for two weeks and would it not affect it, change it. They said it would a bit but be fine. I was very uncertain plus why would I pay all that money for it to look different after holiday. I dithered as I was uncertain. With them being a top hairdresser they should have been advising me to wait till after holiday for colour surely? I said I would come back after for colour and they just looked hacked off tbh. They suggested with a bit of an attitude that I just have the darker permanent colour and have the balayagebalayage after holiday it would only cost a small amount after, twenty something pounds she said. I said I didn't want a permanent colour so she looked hacked off and said we'll do you a semi permanent. They were really pushing it. I reluctantly agreed and they washed my hair. The male director stylist cut it in about six minutes without seeming to take much care. I said I wanted straight sharp edges on the ends but he said a layer would be better so put a shorter layer in near bottom. Then they put colour on and coloured it. When was dry I noticed it quite red need roots and panicked. They said it was just a hint on crown, rest hair was just a slightly darker shade than my original colour sad I asked them to curl it, she used tongs and put a few big wave curls in it, not curls like photo I showed. It looked quite nice so I paid £ 100 and £19 for special colour hair conditioner to protect it and left. Within ten minutes the waves had dropped out so I went back in. They did it again put more spray on. By time I had driven home it had started to go flat again. I've been on holiday for two weeks. I used expensive shampoo and the conditioner and looked after it. I'm home now, a week later I've been fretting and moaning cos the colour has practically gone. My style looks messy and untidy all the time with the layers. After I've dried it it looks dry and not in nice condition, I have to straighten it to make look decent and shiny. I rang them about the balayagebalayage out of curiosity to be told that would cost another £50-£70 even though I told her colourist said £20+ pounds. Plus she said the had only put a tint in and not a semi permanent! I I have not booked again and told her that was not what I was quoted. I feel ripped off and not listened to. I don't want them going near my hair again I don't trust them and don't like the salon attitude. It's cost me £120 in total and feel bad cos my partner paid for it and I feel it looks untidy, now practically back to my original colour. I'm scared to ring up and complain. sad it's not what I asked for and I feel it looks crap. It was meant to be a treat and feel pampered yet it was quite stressful. Upset. Angry. Don't go T'&G.

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MapleandPear · 19/08/2016 14:30

I have been there a couple of times, two different T&Gs, a good few years ago now. They did my hair well each time but I can't be doing with the attitude! From the OP's experience, it doesn't sound like they have changed much.

FetchezLaVache · 19/08/2016 14:35

I went to the one in Harrogate once, years ago. I had an Art Director or person of some such wankous status. Looked great when I left the salon, looked shite when I washed it myself, because it basically hadn't been cut very well. Never been back.

The80sweregreat · 19/08/2016 14:41

its not easy finding a decent hairdressers, in my limited experience ( having had lots of disasters and dodgy 80s perms which went wrong years ago now) I find it best to try and find an independent place, firstly, or maybe put a call out on facebook or other media sites for recommendations. My lady is lovely and really listens, but its taken me a long time to find someone like her, although my previous lady was also nice but didn't go back after having her children. Layers mess up my hair, might be a good idea to avoid them doing this as I do find it harder to manage even with longer layers. Back in the early 80s someone I used to work with actually sued a salon ( never heard of anyone doing this before or since really) and she won her case and all the money back. She took photographs and it did go the small claims court! its disappointing when it goes wrong, but your hair may settle down as it grows a bit. paying so much for a colour is a rip off, but most places seem very expensive these days. It all appears to be a bit of a racket.

TheCatsBiscuits · 19/08/2016 14:44

The last haircut I had at Toni & Guy was when I was at college and they were certainly fashion forward, in that they managed to give me a Mrs Brown ('s Boys) cut, a good twenty years before the programme was invented.

It took me nearly a year to stop being mistaken for an Irish Mammy. Sad

Crinkle77 · 19/08/2016 14:55

You know what I don't think these so called top salons are the best. I go to this hairdressers by mine which is basically like a wooden portacabin and before the smoking ban the customers and staff would smoke in there. I know terrible but I smoke so not that bothered. Not some where you would think of going cos it looks a bit trampy but the stylist was just the best and cut my hair brilliant.

StrawberrytallCake · 19/08/2016 14:58

I went in for highlights years ago and they dyed my hair black and white striped, like a skunk. They made me pay for it and said the only way to resolve was to come back in so they could do it again.

I called head office and went to a big city T&G where they gave my hair a bleach bath and totally f-ed it up for 3 years or so.

I wouldn't go back if you paid me.

HotNatured · 19/08/2016 15:13

T&G are shite

And they are NOT a top salon. V high st . generic chain that specialise in generic hair cuts and colour. Avoid like the plague.

Even your ancient purple rinse granny hairdresser is a better option.

iloveruby · 19/08/2016 15:26

Loving all the comments that £120 isn't a lot for a cut be colour....Hmm

Sorry you had an awful experience and agree that you are better off going to smaller, local salons based on personal recommendation.

Oh, and I get a lovely cut and colour for £70 and look bloody fabulous Grin

Sonders · 19/08/2016 15:37

T&G are awful, as everyone else has said. I know that's not helpful now as it must feel absolutely shit to have spent so much money on something so disappointing.

My advice would be to ask your friends whose styles you like, or have similar hair textures to yours, go to get their hair cut. Most salons have some sort of social media presence so look on Facebook or Instagram for before and after pictures too. Pop into the salon at a quiet-ish time for a chat about what you want before you book an appointment.

Most salons understand the value of a customer isn't in a one-time visit at £120, but the lifetime of the relationship, so will be more than happy to make sure they understand what you want perfectly :)

Queenbean · 19/08/2016 15:41

I think the problem with a £120 cut and colour is that you need a lot more time than that would allow to get decent colour. Many people want a sunkissed look which cannot be achieved with either highlights or balayage only.

My hairdresser does balayage, highlights, low lights, baby lights and root lift on my hair. The whole thing takes 3-4 hours to do. You cannot spend that amount of time that's needed in the chair and expect to only pay £120.

Hotwaterbottle1 · 19/08/2016 15:50

T&G are franchised therefore the training differs from salon to salon so it's not a consistent brand. I know as I work for a training company that deals with the apprenticeship training for 3 branches and they get full proper training. Personally I'd pick a hairdresser from recommendation rather than a brand. I'm also complain to the head office not the salon as it affects the "brand".

PopChart · 19/08/2016 16:35

As DameDiazipin said Toni & Guy is just a big franchise now, trading on its name. The fact that many of their staff only have 6 weeks training is totally shocking. I've never had a good cut there, even the Covent Garden salon. I thought I had just been unlucky, but it happened again. The last hair cut I had in a provincial Toni & Guy was baaaaadddddd...... if I'd taken a sizzors to my own hair in front of the bathroom mirror I could have done a better job.

Foxyloxy1plus1 · 19/08/2016 16:45

I had a wonderful hairdresser, loved him to bits, expensive though it was and then we moved too far away to keep going there.

It's taken me two years to find a hairdresser I like, who listens and suggests rather than going ahead without taking any notice of what you say.

The first one left my hair (unintentionally) lop sided, the next started off OK, but then got a bit slapdash and seemed to want to do a cut and colour in an hour. This was is fairly newly qualified, but is career focused, keen to enter competitions for cutting and colouring , keeps up to date and is always busy. Hoping it continues.

Toxicity · 19/08/2016 17:10

Sorry you had a bad experience. Like many pps I don't rate T&G at all, they are just another chain like Headmasters and Rush and I think they are too hit and miss. I wouldn't touch any of them with a barge pole!

What I have done a couple of times is go to a hairdresser and get them to blowdry my hair, if they have interpreted what I asked for well, then I'll book a cut with them!

lasttimeround · 19/08/2016 17:14

My hairdresser head stylist at toni & guy is fabulous and only person I let near my mixed race crazy hair in ghetto city I live in. My hair is ace too Grin

ThymeForTea · 19/08/2016 17:17

I am a hairdresser and I worked in a salon next to t and g. We had LOADS of crying women over the years from that place.

They have certain styles they like and you get one whatever you ask for.

I'd be bald than go in there

ThymeForTea · 19/08/2016 17:18

I am a hairdresser and I worked in a salon next to t and g. We had LOADS of crying women over the years from that place.

They have certain styles they like and you get one whatever you ask for.

I'd be bald than go in there

ilovewelshrarebit123 · 19/08/2016 17:28

I went once, never again, I went to the one in Maidstone. I told her what I wanted and she completely ignored me, didn't say one word to me the whole time and had a face on her.

She cut it so short I couldn't do anything with it, it was awful!

Stormtreader · 19/08/2016 17:41

I went once, got a basic short cut and when I got home and washed it I found that the reason she'd spent so long curling the ends in was to hide the fact that one side was an inch shorter than the other.

I'd never go back to one.

PopChart · 19/08/2016 17:43

I've been waiting to get this off my chest (how bad Toni & Guy are despite their bloody name) for a decade, lol! Thank you and goodnight Smile

Ionacat · 19/08/2016 17:44

I go to Toni and Guy and my hairdresser is amazing. I have very thick curly hair and she does a great job - however trying to find a hairdresser who is good with curly hair is a nightmare, as they need to understand how it changes when dry and where it needs thinning and layering etc. If she ever leaves, I don't know what I'm going to do. (She was away once and I let the stand-in cut my hair, never again - my hairdresser wasn't impressed either.)

FluffyPersian · 19/08/2016 18:18

About 20 years ago T&g in Newcastle, Leeds and Epsom looked at me and said "We don't do curly hair". Sounds like I got off lightly.

I've got afro hair (even though I'm white) - think hair like a young Michael Jackson that stands up on end by itself! (genetic thing).

I went to T&G in Salisbury in 2000 and they brought all their stylists around and starting pulling it in a 'woooooow, look at your hair' type thing - I felt like a total freak as they'd never dealt with my type of hair before. All they did was stick LOADS of product in it so it stayed wet for over 24 hours and was thick and claggy.

I go to a local salon that specialises in afro Caribbean hair and they are amazing - I'll never go anywhere else.

LettyStiletty · 19/08/2016 19:06

Google or Facebook search 'Spring' salon in Birmingham for an amazing curly haircut with Matthew James or Danny.

AgainPlease · 19/08/2016 19:43

I go to Toni & Guy every 6 weeks for a full-head highlights which costs me around £130-140 each time. I see the same colourist and won't go anywhere else. Ever!

(London)

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