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AIBU?

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To just leave her?

11 replies

MyBreadIsEggy · 18/08/2016 12:54

My 15 month old is a really good sleeper.
On a normal day, she wakes at 7am, naps from 11:30-1/1:30, then is asleep for the night by 7pm and sleeps through until 7am most nights.
But the last couple of days, she's been going down for her nap at 11:30 and waking after only an hour - which is clearly not enough because by the time 4pm rolls around, she's knackered. She doesn't cry, but chats to herself and has a little bounce around. AIBU to just leave her in her cot until 1 as long as she stays happily chatting away and doesn't become upset?
I've seen people say to other mums netters who's kids are nap-avoiders, that quiet time in their cot is almost as good as a nap?
Feel a little bit weird about leaving her upstairs while she's awake, even though she seems quite happy!

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sooperdooper · 18/08/2016 12:56

If she's not upset I think it's fine, and surely a good thing she's so content on her own for a little while

MyBreadIsEggy · 18/08/2016 12:58

She's still laying down (can see her on the video monitor), she just chatting to herself! I'm going up to get her now, but sea been awake for about 25 mins!
I feel a bit mean leaving her up there!

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Sparklesilverglitter · 18/08/2016 12:58

If she's happy why not

KondosSecretJunkRoom · 18/08/2016 13:00

I think quiet time in the cot is as good as a nap for the mum Grin

If she's content to sit in her cot quietly then give it a go and see if she is able to go longer without getting tired but I wouldn't hold my breath (I might cross my fingers though)

Niloufes · 18/08/2016 13:06

If she's happy there is no issue.

PotOfYoghurt · 18/08/2016 13:08

Why don't you try putting her down later so she sleeps 1-3 etc?

MyBreadIsEggy · 18/08/2016 13:10

I'm going to try putting her down later tomorrow I think Smile
She's only just dropped to one nap a few weeks ago, so was struggling to stay awake until 11:30 once her morning nap stopped, but now I think she's adjusted and could go longer Smile might try 12:30 tomorrow

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ShtoppenDerFloppen · 18/08/2016 13:26

I found with my children that moving to one nap in the afternoon happened between 15 and 18 months. It didn't happen overnight, but once a new nap schedule was established, evening/night sleep improved dramatically.

You are definitely on the right path...

Candlefairy101 · 18/08/2016 13:29

If you've always responded to her in the past when she called then in the future she will always tell you when she's unhappy.

I would say it's lovely that she's happy to just play on her own for a bit, she may enjoy a little break away aswell as mum Smile

MyBreadIsEggy · 18/08/2016 13:34

I she heard me go up the stairs and to the toilet before I went in her room and changed from just general chatter to "Mama, mama, mama" Grin so she obviously knew I was going to get her. And when I walked in, she stood up, waved and said "HI!!" Grin
I'm pretty sure she's not traumatised by 25 mins by herself 👌🏻

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MrsMozart · 18/08/2016 13:48

I think it's important for everyone to learn to be on one's own, so the more gently it can be done the better, which this sounds perfect for.

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