Ok so I'm debating about posting this the last hour. I'm in the situation where me and my partner have a child and one on the way. We fight constantly. We are not compatible. We originally loved each other but once we had our dd things went downhill. The 4 years of fighting has taken its toll.
A huge problem is the fact that I don't fancy him anymore. The spark is gone. Anytime there has been sex it's been a special occasion where I've felt obliged. We had a huge row last month and I owned up to how I feel. I've stated we are toxic towards one another. We fight daily. My family have turned their back on him because he can be so nasty if he's in a mood. The simple fact of the matter is I am not in love with him and I do not want to be with him in that way. I am hoping to co-parent our children in the most loving way possible just without mummy and daddy sleeping in the same bed. He thinks I am the cruelest woman alive and that I am breaking up this family and our kids will be the product of a broken home. I said better to be from a broken home than an unhappy one. He just reiterates all the time that I am throwing our family away. But the fact of the matter is I don't fancy him. The thought of sex with him now is just... No. I feel like an awful human being but I think better to face facts now and decide how to move forward than to bring another child into this unhappy home where mummy and daddy fight every day. Any advice?