My mum is in need to move house so much and it's just doesn't seem likely that it is going to happen anytime soon,
Backstory- her dh left her 3 years ago as she has ms and he just didn't want to care for her anymore, literally just walked out one day.
She lives about a 40 min drive away from me in the middle of nowhere, they moved there together 11 years ago. I try to get round and help her as much as I can but with 2 kids and a full time job it's really hard. We need to move her closer to us but am really struggling. She doesn't qualify for a council property as our council have a strict policy that if you have lived outside the area for over 3 years they can't help. I have managed to save up for a deposit and first months rent for her but there are no properties available, I have actively looking for over a year.
I went round today and the place is such a state and she has been on her own for over a week as I haven't been able to get over.
I have talked about home help coming in bit she is only early 50s so feels like she doesn't want this.
I just don't know what to do to get her moved, we only have a 2 bed terrace house and with 2 kids it's already packed, after today's visit I just broke down and said I want to move her in to ours but dh has said no as there isn't room.