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To wonder what's great about SE England?

114 replies

Babyzoo · 13/08/2016 15:35

I hear that everyone wants to live in the South East of England.

What is it that attracts everyone there?

Is it really a wonderful place to live?

OP posts:
rosieappletree · 15/08/2016 13:06

You might Walrus?? But no one else I know does.

WaitrosePigeon · 15/08/2016 13:12

Think rosie has a touch of the green eyed monster

Hellomrbean · 15/08/2016 13:14

Gosh, yes. Pollution in London and SE is awful. Can't be any good for your lungs.

Kennington · 15/08/2016 13:16

The jobs
The weather

WalrusGumboot · 15/08/2016 13:27

Chill Rosie, it's just a memory from my childhood and anyway how on earth can you be sure of that unless you've asked everyone you know? Grin

IfTheCapFitsWearIt · 15/08/2016 13:53

The thing is with jobs, before the recession lots of big companies (national and international) had offices and head quarters in parts of the north. With the recession these were the first to go.

The job section of a local paper I use to buy was a big chunky stapled newpaper of its own. It went almost over night to a two page spread. Consisting of mainly carers and cleaners jobs.

Along with daily headlines of thousands of more redundancies as yet another large company folded or closing shop to scale down or relocating.

So companies don't need 22nd century technology they have to be given insentives to move.

With good jobs comes the perceived more cultural aspiratuonal environment.

So as I said before apart from jobs there is nothing you can't get out side of the SE. The north is not some homogeneous bleak old industrial place. There are so many different cities and towns that offer cultural diversity, and arts culture, and for fucks sake you can't throw a stone without hitting a museum, and plenty of national musems are about too.

I still stand by the fact the SE country side (though green and country side like) is bland.

Its too busy, London is the holy grail and bee all and end all. Pollution is high.

Look at the thread for most people all they say is "its soooo close to london" well woopty fucking doo.
You know you can get a train from other parts of the country and be in london in a couple of hours. So you know, getting the "London cultural fix" isn't that hard for people.

Ohh and sports are in the SE you can't get elsewhere?

IfTheCapFitsWearIt · 15/08/2016 13:56

*what sports?

LellyMcKelly · 15/08/2016 14:08

I moved to Southampton from the Midlands 10 years ago because of dxh job. It's warmer, I'm on the doorstep on the New Forest, half an hour from the coast, there are more 'nice things' - farmer's markets, festivals etc. You pay for it though. The cost of housing, public transport and car parking is a joke. Entrance fees to attractions, soft play, cinemas etc. are more expensive. Everything feels just a little bit more comfortable.

LikeDylanInTheMovies · 15/08/2016 18:04

Whenever I come back from Greater London and blow my nose it is black!! Hate to know what the pollution is doing to you breathing in day in day out. Always fine after visiting Edinburgh though.

Yes that's tube snot. It comes from brake dust thrown up from the trains. It is also why the station platforms look really sooty too.

Trills · 15/08/2016 22:29

Are you going on BAD tubes? I have never had black snot. Is it the Central line? I don't like the Central line.

TheRealAdaLovelace · 15/08/2016 22:51

I used to get marvellous black bogies when i travelled on the Northern Line years ago, but for the last few weeks have been staying in a tubeless outpost of South London and my bogies are disappointingly pale.

LikeDylanInTheMovies · 15/08/2016 23:33

Right, I'm going to out my self as a total train geek here. It depends on the age of the rolling stock. Older tube trains have friction brakes which causes the brake dust to fly up, whereas newer types of tube stock use dynamic braking where the energy dissipates as heat rather than friction or is regenerated back into the power supply, so you don't get the brake dust getting up your nose.

So yes it does depend what line you are on and how old the rolling stock is running on it.

blueshoes · 15/08/2016 23:58

For me, apart from what other posters have already said, it is my job in the City. The depth, complexity and variety, clever people I work with and sheer diversity I cannot find elsewhere, possibly not even in New York. Things change quickly and nothing stands still. People are adaptable, problem-solving and generally tolerant.

Love my job in the greatest city in the world!

Possibilityofanisland · 16/08/2016 10:09

I'm from the SE but moved northbound Manchester for almost 20 years.

Where I lived was beautiful, a microclimate so never really cold so never bloody snowed a university town so full of diversity and a variety of jobs. Near the lakes, near the sea, great transport links.

I moved to London for work a few years ago and then to rural SE for children and I'm so happy to be back here.

I feel more alive here, closer to the world as a whole, more a part of things. It's 'home'.

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