Hey everyone, I'm feeling frustrated and not sure if IABU or not.
DH and I have one DD(3 and a half), since she was around 9months old DH has voiced that he wanted to start trying for another. I wasn't ready and haven't been until earlier this year when I finally felt ready. I think the reason i started to feel like I wanted another was because I'd started to feel ready which had meant I was open to listening to DH talk about all the fantastic things about having another baby, so in February we stopped using protection.
So here's the problem, DH works extremely long hours and is tired a lot, I get up very early and need atleast 8hours as I suffer from migraines, this means that we don't actually have sex I would say more than twice a week, sometimes its even just the once. We've been together 8years both always been happy like this BUT this is not enough to try for a baby. With DD we were extremely lucky, one month and we were pregnant but this time round it's not happened like that and I've tried explaining to him that were nearing on 6months of trying and we need to start making an effort to have sex more and around the right time, he feels like this makes it forced and that then makes us both feel awkward. I don't know what to do, I feel like now I'm the only one taking it seriously and he just isn't.