When I was 18, I dated a much older man (54) for 5 years. We broke up three years ago and I am now happily engaged.
The break-up was amicable, and although we don't often see each other, there weren't any hard feelings. That being said, we barely speak.
When we dated, we were both pretty active on the swinging scene, and he actively looked for additional partners. He had a profile on a popular swinging dating site, as did I, but I have since deleted it as I am now monogamous.
HOWEVER, last weekend, my friend mentioned that she'd seen his profile and he's still using (naked) photos of me on it. AIBU to feel a bit uncomfortable about this? I feel more than a little creeped out that his profile makes it seem like we may still be together/involved, and that other young girls might be influenced by this. It seems a bit odd, especially seeing as we aren't really even friends anymore (his current partner is somewhat less than warm to me).
AIBU to ask him to take them down? It feels petty, because they've been up there for so long (clarification: DP knows and is fine with this). I don't want to create any drama, or get involved in a big argument over nothing - I was just so shocked to see them up there after all this time.
I don't resent his lifestyle, and he's perfectly welcome to do whatever he likes, but I feel like he should have taken them down after we broke up.