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To think that it's more hassle than it's worth buying things from friends' MLM businesses?

33 replies

BlueberryFanta · 09/08/2016 14:42

I have several friends that are consultants for MLM companies. I'm not mad on these companies but as my friends add me to their selling FB groups and constantly try to sell me stuff I try to be a good friend and order something from each of them occasionally.

However it's more hassle than it's bloody worth! Each and every time I order anything it's a right pain in the arse for me, and I always end up being the one having to collect the product from my friend etc.

Latest thing is I ordered some skincare products from a friend who has just started up her business. She hassled and hassled me to order something. Then she wanted full payment before ordering, which is fair enough but meant I had to go to her house to drop off the money as she didn't want it Paypal'd or bank transferred over. She told me when it arrived she'd pop it round.

Items took ages to arrive at hers, and last week she sent me a text to say the items were with her but that I'd need to pop round and get them. We arranged a convenient time for us both. I got there, she was out and had forgotten I was going round. She then badgered me several times to make another time to go round even though I was having a very busy week. Every time/day I suggested was no good for her and she was suggesting things like 7am on Sunday!

Anyway then we come to today when we arranged that I'd go round again to collect said items (if I hadn't already paid £30 I'd just leave it tbh). Got there, and she couldn't find them and thinks she 'may' have given them to another customer in error or taken them in error to a party she did last week and left them there.

So now I have to wait another sodding three weeks or so, and go through all the rigmarole of picking up items etc when they arrive.

This sort of thing happens EVERY time I order anything from friends that sell stuff.

AIBU to just not buy from friends again?

OP posts:
SpiceLinerandHoneyLove · 09/08/2016 18:14

Is Osbourne books one of these? Just concerned as a friend (real one!) is having a party in a few weeks and seems really excited by it. I probably will buy as I love books, but I don't want her getting ripped off

Muskateersmummy · 09/08/2016 18:27

I buy these products to support a friend. I like the product and they make it hassle free for me.

debbs77 · 09/08/2016 19:38

MLM companies are not scams. They are actually a great way to start a business without having to create your own product.

The issue is those that flaunt it and give them a bad name. For example, adding people to groups without asking, the hard sell etc. I do two and they help pay my bills massively.

Floggingmolly · 09/08/2016 19:41

Why do you keep buying shite you don't need "to be a good friend"? Would you pop round to clean their houses to be a good friend? Thought not...

Flisspaps · 09/08/2016 19:55

They are scams and they will bleed you dry.

Take a look at the Timeless Vie page -

https://www.facebook.com/timelessvie/

OP. Stop buying their crap, write off the debt.

Fourfifthsof · 09/08/2016 20:18

I can't stand anything to do with MLMs and won't buy anything at all, even to support my friends so you are a better person than me OP!

Some Juice Plus bot once marketed to me that Juice Plus prevented women having C Sections and developing Pre-Eclampsia. When she knew that I had just had that very experience. Blocked her grabby self.

The worst thing is that those claims were on her public page - I really hope that some poor uneducated soul hasn't taken this at face value and thought they don't need to go to their ante-natal screenings because they "can't get PE on Juice Plus!"

GloveBug · 09/08/2016 22:06

Every time someone adds me to their selling group I just remove myself. One friend added me 4 times before getting the hint!

Helloitsme88 · 09/08/2016 22:24

Never ever buy body shop stuff. Voucher codes always offer 40% off every other day.
MLM are scams. Overpriced and then you get more and more pestered to buy more shit. If you wanna spend that much on a product then go with a legit company that specialises in each product I.e Holland and Barrett, Clinique, Laura mercier, Anastasia Beverly Hills etc. Not some bloody aloe crap that tastes rank

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