Just wondering, as I know this will be suggested in the coming months. Baby is nearly 5 months ( also have 10 and7 year old). Wondering at what point is it reasonable for husband to take all three to visit his dad for the day? His dad lives just over an hour away if you travel morning/ night avoiding peak traffic times. The situation didn't arise with the older kids as we lived hours away then and DH didn't take them there for ages. Wondering if IABU to think 'not yet, he's so small' or if that is just possessive madness?! If I am being unreasonable, then of course DH should take them all for a visit- I am under no pressure to go so could potentially have a day off, which I cannot imagine! But would also feel so strange without baby ( obviously the older two go to school, I'm used to separating from them lol) . Your thoughts and direction on this is appreciated xxx