Is it wrong that I hate having my perfectly lovely, easy going in laws to stay over? I hate waking around in the morning not dressed for the day so have to get up, shower, and get dressed immediately, so no slobbing about. I also hate having to talk all the time, sometimes I want to sit and read and just watch telly. Said guests are helpful, clean, tidy, not demanding at all. I just much prefer it when they stay in a hotel nearby. Am I being mean because they're in laws and not my family, or is it totally reasonable to feel like this? They currently stay in a sofa bed in the lounge. We need a new sofa, is it mean to get one that's not a sofa bed but to get one that actually looks nice and that I like? Or should we bear them in mind and buy a sofa bed so they can stay over in the future? Thanks all.