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Am I the only one that doesn't use the word 'tea'?!

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BlondieLoxie · 28/07/2016 09:19

Yesterday I was corrected for using the word dinner instead of tea!

Tea to me is the hot stuff in a cup which I love 😁 Dinner is dinner. Supper..what is that? Am I in the minority here that I simply say breakfast, lunch, dinner and possibly dessert.

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SuperFlyHigh · 28/07/2016 10:38

In london and the south we never (or as far as I know) say tea, it's always dinner.

SuperFlyHigh · 28/07/2016 10:38

same VForVienetta - tea is 11am or 4pm!

SuperFlyHigh · 28/07/2016 10:39

I am slightly curious though do northerners (think we've gauged its a north/south divide thing) ever get confused re 'tea' as a meal time and 'tea' as a beverage? Brew

notamummy10 · 28/07/2016 10:41

It's a regional thing, just like the bread roll debate (fyi it's a cob) or an alleyway (it's a jitty)

I say breakfast, dinner and tea!

notamummy10 · 28/07/2016 10:43

No... In the North (and East Midlands) we call the drink 'a brew' so we never get confused!!

hellsbellsmelons · 28/07/2016 10:45

It's dinner.
Sounds weird when you keep saying it though.
South East!

BobbinThreadbare123 · 28/07/2016 10:47

Brekky or breakfast, lunch, tea. Pudding. Brew where I live now, cuppa where I come from. Actually, it should all be called scran.

StarkintheSouth · 28/07/2016 10:47

I was raised in Yorkshire and we say Breakfast, dinner, tea. But I live down south with a Londoner husband and he says Breakfast, lunch, dinner. After being down here for a while I switch between the two tbh. Supper is IMO what posh people call tea, but when I was a child it was a light snack before bed time!

EskSmith · 28/07/2016 10:51

I agree with Delphinium Blue and scrambledsmegs.

Lunch - light meal in middle of day
Tea - light meal in evening
Dinner - main, hot meal of the day, middle of the day or evening.
Supper - light meal but late - for grown ups after about 9.30pm.

However it is clear that it varies based on regional and other factors so for someone to correct the you is very rude.

Girlsthatsing · 28/07/2016 10:52

Breakfast lunch/dinner tea here.

I thought it was a class thing. When my friend went up in the world (hospital consultant) she started saying, we're going out for supper meaning going on for a meal whereas supper for me is a bowl of cereal before bed.

headinthecloud · 28/07/2016 10:54

I'm southern.

Breakfast lunch dinner

Desert

Tea is in a mug

Fooshufflewickbannanapants · 28/07/2016 10:59

And massivley outing here but it's not a bread roll or a cob etc it's a breadcake 😂.

NinjaLeprechaun · 28/07/2016 11:00

A lot of people in the US say breakfast/dinner/supper. Just to mix things up. I'm not sure if this is regional usage.
(And we most definitely had lunch at school, complete with "lunch ladies".)

Purplebluebird · 28/07/2016 11:00

breakfast, lunch, dinner! I'm not English though so that's just how I've learnt it!

ScrambledSmegs · 28/07/2016 11:03

Anyone know what meal of the day nuncheon was? Sounds like lunch but I wonder if it was then how did language change it to an 'l' word?

BarbaraofSeville · 28/07/2016 11:04

It's a regional thing, just like the bread roll debate (fyi it's a cob) or an alleyway (it's a jitty)

I'm with Fooshuffle here, it's a breadcake and a ginnel. No need to worry about being outed, there are a few million of us that agree on that one.

ScrambledSmegs · 28/07/2016 11:04

I've read a lot of Georgette Heyer, hence 'repast' and 'nuncheon'. And 'hence' Grin

BlondieLoxie · 28/07/2016 11:07

I think for me, when I hear people say 'what shall we have for tea?', it sounds in my head, a bit fuddy duddy and dated.. I'd never be so rude to say that to someone in rl. Just my personal thoughts.

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Slummamumma · 28/07/2016 11:07

Hhhm, we say breakfast, lunch and the children have tea or tea-sups; the grown ups always have supper. Dinner is evening but either smarty meal out or meal eaten in someone's dining room - as opposed to kitchen supper - more relaxed meal... Think it's a regional thing and there's no dining room at mine so always supper here!

squoosh · 28/07/2016 11:10

Breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Of course.

But I sometimes refer to dinner as tea, mainly because I like how quaint it sounds. And when we were growing up we always had a Sunday tea of scones and buns and other baked loveliness. Yum.

HeteronormativeHaybales · 28/07/2016 11:11

I was brought up (Midlands, northern mother) with breakfast, dinner (hot 'proper meal')/lunch (lighter meal), tea (later, as I was older, perhaps dinner? Can't remember) and 'supper' as a pre-bed snack.

I now say breakfast, lunch, and either dinner or supper - the latter comes more frequently into play the later it is and the lighter the meal is. We don't have 'supper' as in pre-bed snack.

trafalgargal · 28/07/2016 11:11

Breakfast lunch tea (for the kids) dinner (7pm or later so usually kid free)

Sunday's if it's a traditional huge late lunch then supper for everyone in the evening........adult tea would be the Christmas Day later meal or a special occasion tea scones, sandwiches and cakes posh afternoon thing

That's how I roll in the South East .....works for me.

BadToTheBone · 28/07/2016 11:12

Breakfast Dinner Tea. I'm northern but lived in the states for a large chunk of my life. I called it the same when I was there, caused confusion but I just couldn't break the habit. Back in the NE now, so I'm amongst my own people, lol

I don't drink tea, so that's not an issue for me.

user1468166567 · 28/07/2016 11:13

I said breakfast, dinner, yea growing up.

I then moved to the Cotswolds and hearing the word 'Supper' or most often 'Sapper Dahhhhlinnng' I would cringe as its soooo poncey! Supper to me was cheese and crackers before bed.

Now I say Dinner but only when asking friends 'out for dinner'

KayTee87 · 28/07/2016 11:13

Breakfast, second breakfast, brunch, lunch, tea, dinner, dessert, supper ..... Sorry got lost there... Almost 41 weeks pg CakeChocolate

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