This may out me but I am not sure I care.
Booked a caravan holiday in Feb for 8 of us 6 kids 2 adults.
OH got sent away unexpectedly with work so can't come.
DSS decided to cancel his leave and visit us when his dad is back.
DS1 was refused the time off (peak season).
DS2 dad told him he's booked a holiday the same week (without checking 
)so DS2 doing half the holiday with me half with his dad.
DSD's mum was happy for them both to come but we have fallen out and she's now saying "they don't want to come" (on their only holiday in 6 yrs?!).
DD (16) has just said her holiday job have refused to give her the time off. She is refusing to allow me to speak to the manager. I am not happy to leave her and DS1 here alone (he has form).
My friend is planning to come but has a new job so now unsure if she can (for whole week).
Do I just cancel and accept the loss and never book a family holiday again or go and possibly be miserable/alone most of week.